Hi Guys,
I'm not trying to start anything at all, its just after all of this stuff thats been going on with Mitzi, and all of the understanding and everything that has been shown, I really feel bad for LM. She's nowhere to be found and I feel bad, everyone has problems and I think we should welcome her and love her till she loves herself too. What are your thoughts on that? I don't like to see people hurting and I haven't talked to her at all, just would like her to know that I for one am here for her with open arms and don't like to see people suffer, no matter what the cause is.
Love ya's all (got that ya's from Bob and Gina)
Roe
Excellent point Briar.
Hi,
Thats not even close to being the same thing. That was personal, that wasn't just a situation that took place here on the board. That was also something that dealt with our, ( my wifes mostly ) personal lives, countless amout of hours and emotions that were played with. Many hours that were devoted to being their for her and at times putting the needs of family second to help and be their for someone that was thought to be a friend, or someone that was thought to be even closer than just a friend.
Thats the last I'll say, so please do not even try and compare the two, most people here can not even begin to know the depth of that situation, I won't go into it, and you'll never get the truth from her, thats a fact. End of conversation.
Take care......................................God bless........................................Bob
Thats not even close to being the same thing. That was personal, that wasn't just a situation that took place here on the board. That was also something that dealt with our, ( my wifes mostly ) personal lives, countless amout of hours and emotions that were played with. Many hours that were devoted to being their for her and at times putting the needs of family second to help and be their for someone that was thought to be a friend, or someone that was thought to be even closer than just a friend.
Thats the last I'll say, so please do not even try and compare the two, most people here can not even begin to know the depth of that situation, I won't go into it, and you'll never get the truth from her, thats a fact. End of conversation.
Take care......................................God bless........................................Bob
I hate getting emails and not being able to answer them. This week, thats suppose to be fixed on this damn thing, till then you know I love you and Gi,
I'm gonna write Gi a long one, tell her that, and tell her I like the teenage one she sent me the BEST!!!!!!!! Love ya.
I'm gonna write Gi a long one, tell her that, and tell her I like the teenage one she sent me the BEST!!!!!!!! Love ya.
i also want to add, that carry was given the opportunity to explain, and was offered the same unconditional love and understanding with the condition that she help us to understand and let us help. carry is the one that chose to pack up and run with no trace. i also think the difference is that mitzy has hung around and she is facing her faults and trying to show and prove herself. that takes guts/courage plus we all understand this disease and how it effects us as individuals differently. that is why carry will always be in my prayers and maybe one day she too will show some guts and courage and come back and let herself be helped. thats all we can do is pray. who am i to judge anyone. all i can do is try and understand to the best of my ability so that maybe some how i can help with the knowledge at hand. that is all i try/want to do.
See, I don't know all this stuff. I e-spoke to a dear friend and she explained some of it, and some of it I didn't like, to make it blunt I didn't like the way she treated my friend. But I just don't like to see anyone hurt, especially when they're possibly dying. Again, without betraying confidences, I'm confused here. And I'm not talking about Carrie's confidence, its someone else who hold a near and dear place in my heart that was apparantly hurt deeply and I hate to see that. I don't know. Maybe I should just shut up
Gotta elaborate on the previous post. The friend I didn't like was in my opinion a comple, honest and total victim, who gave her heart and soul to make the other one's life easier. She was hurt badly. You know who I'm talking about ya's.
Hi, B, i saw that you wrote to me and i wrote a few sentences to u in spanish went to go post it and bamm it was locked, i swear some people are so mean to take the time and go cut and paste that old post from like last summer and put it under my name, spelled wrong but none the less my name has no life and thats all i have to say about that.....
Look i just wanted you to know that i did try to post back and thanks for writting me as well, please take care always.........
Mitzy
Look i just wanted you to know that i did try to post back and thanks for writting me as well, please take care always.........
Mitzy
Mitzi,
Thanks for responding to me. I didn't deserve it, as I was mean to you in doubtin that it was you that posted and tried to fool everyone.
Thats what happened right? because just tell me. You can be honest and I won't judge. Its 11:30 and I can't do the spanish thing anymore, and I think its not fair to do that (I'm the one who started it) on here. I'm here for ya, I've made mistakes too, actually I screw up alot.
Thanks for responding to me. I didn't deserve it, as I was mean to you in doubtin that it was you that posted and tried to fool everyone.
Thats what happened right? because just tell me. You can be honest and I won't judge. Its 11:30 and I can't do the spanish thing anymore, and I think its not fair to do that (I'm the one who started it) on here. I'm here for ya, I've made mistakes too, actually I screw up alot.
I feel that Carrie has the freedom to speak whatever she pleases, but chooses not too, for some reason. I'm still confused as well, Briar - but if someone is not guilty of something they have been accused of, then why not stick up for themselves? I know that Carrie is not a person that is at a loss for words, by no means.
I would welcome Carrie with open arms, as well. I have not heard from her either by email or otherwise. If things I heard by so many that cared deeply for her are true, then one thing I do have to say is Carrie, I really really do feel very sorry for you.
Marie
I would welcome Carrie with open arms, as well. I have not heard from her either by email or otherwise. If things I heard by so many that cared deeply for her are true, then one thing I do have to say is Carrie, I really really do feel very sorry for you.
Marie
Hi Briar, I think there's a huge difference between Carrie and Mitzy. From what I've read Mitzy hasn't tried to harm other people or cause people to hate each other with lies. I'm sure there aren't too many here who didn't notice the enormous falling out that resulted broken friendships, distrust, and controversy amoungst the members of this board. That should have never happened. For one person to be so rotten as to be responsible for that much caos is horrible. Now all I see is peace amoung the members here and good feelings. It's a relief. We're all wiser now, before none of us saw what hit us. As for Mitzy, I think everyone sees her need and her sweet heart and want to overlook whatever problems she may have in hopes she can overcome some of them. I think it's a mistake when people blame everything somebody does on being an addict. Some things are just our personalities or lack of character. There was never an excuse for the meaness and cruelty that Carrie displayed, and there never will be. A good point as far as character goes Briar, is yours, your heart is kind and you want to be the nice person you are. It's so sad to have to learn that not all people are kind or have good hearts at all. Much love to you and all, Kat
