We have 2 children very young. He says he's taking 10mg's of methadone every day now to wean himself off of drugs. He has also been shooting up but I don't know how often. we are always arguing and I need out but when I want to leave he says he will get into drugs again because it hurts too much if we break up. I'm trapped. We fight every three days at least, has been this way for as long as weve been together. I want to start living my life without crying sometime during the day I want to be free I want our kids to grow up with parents that get along and don't fight but live in separate places. I can not for the 100000 time take this anymore. I need things to be normal I want to be able to feel moments again. He has me so trapped what do I do? He says he'll go and do drugs and if I really love him then don't breakup with him because that will make him do drugs. ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! help! please
Awwwwww, Lane...you have the tears coming on me now....I'm so sorry, sweetie.....I was wondering when you were going to let it out.
I guess you did the math.....you poor thing.....Lane if you can get out then GO!
I'm a recovering heroin addict....I destroyed my family......he's sabatoging you.
That's what we do.....once you give in then it'll be over, and over....the people on Families they KNOW this.....he needs a rehab....if he shooting dope you know that.....YOU CAN'T MAKE HIM DO ANYTHING....YOU CAN'T SAVE HIM, LANE!!!!!!!! He needs to do that.....you can be there when he goes into recovery AFTER he gets good help, sweetie......he needs HELP....he ain't going to do that, and if he's saying that to you.....Pffffffff......we know how it is us junkies, and that's what we are....people's dad's, wive's, brothers, friends, and MOM'S.
I stole my kids CD's, Lane......there's nothing right about that.....we're good people in a awful spot.....it can get better, but HE has to do it.
I was waiting and hoping you'd have relief from your questions....I'm sorry.
!,000,00000,00000000000 times over, and over again....he's DOING THE DRUGS ALREADY.....you ain't driving him to anything, baby.....he's doing it to him......he'll do it when he's ready.
I'm so, so sorry.....please try and hang in there.....don't fight with him...you're wasting breath...he's where he's at, and HE needs to get out of that....stay on here people here will help you....I have to let my child on for something. I'll check back with you.....O.K.....I'm so sorry.
I guess you did the math.....you poor thing.....Lane if you can get out then GO!
I'm a recovering heroin addict....I destroyed my family......he's sabatoging you.
That's what we do.....once you give in then it'll be over, and over....the people on Families they KNOW this.....he needs a rehab....if he shooting dope you know that.....YOU CAN'T MAKE HIM DO ANYTHING....YOU CAN'T SAVE HIM, LANE!!!!!!!! He needs to do that.....you can be there when he goes into recovery AFTER he gets good help, sweetie......he needs HELP....he ain't going to do that, and if he's saying that to you.....Pffffffff......we know how it is us junkies, and that's what we are....people's dad's, wive's, brothers, friends, and MOM'S.
I stole my kids CD's, Lane......there's nothing right about that.....we're good people in a awful spot.....it can get better, but HE has to do it.
I was waiting and hoping you'd have relief from your questions....I'm sorry.
!,000,00000,00000000000 times over, and over again....he's DOING THE DRUGS ALREADY.....you ain't driving him to anything, baby.....he's doing it to him......he'll do it when he's ready.
I'm so, so sorry.....please try and hang in there.....don't fight with him...you're wasting breath...he's where he's at, and HE needs to get out of that....stay on here people here will help you....I have to let my child on for something. I'll check back with you.....O.K.....I'm so sorry.
Addicts telling you tey will get worse, relapse, kill themselves if u leave is just emotional blackmail and manipulation. They are accountable for their own actions.
Run, dont walk. Dont look back.
Run, dont walk. Dont look back.
Lane, I am so very very sorry for your situation.....but as addicts we do play on others guilt and emotions.......I also agree that he is manipulating you......he will use if he wants to use......we tend to blame our addictions on a million different things, but in the end we use because we want to.......when he gets more into recovery and the spirituality of it, he will come to see this.but right now u have to look out for you and yur children..if u want to go...... .GO, he will only do his best to bring u down with him....thats what we do......misery loves company.
I feel so deeply for your situation.......must be awful scary with young children to care for and all, I will keep you in my prayers.
Do you have someplace you could go to? somewhere where he cant have access to you for a bit........
as an addict and an enabler....I know that sometimes letting go can be the hardest thing to do.........I still can't do it at times.........but as hard as it is to know, an addict can only help himself.......no matter how badly we want to help them. I destroyed my entire family, hurt so many people, but it wasn't unitl I had had enough, did I stop.......didn't matter to me how fed up they were.....it was all about me..Damn I hate writing that..but so truthful it is.
good Luck and God bless
I feel so deeply for your situation.......must be awful scary with young children to care for and all, I will keep you in my prayers.
Do you have someplace you could go to? somewhere where he cant have access to you for a bit........
as an addict and an enabler....I know that sometimes letting go can be the hardest thing to do.........I still can't do it at times.........but as hard as it is to know, an addict can only help himself.......no matter how badly we want to help them. I destroyed my entire family, hurt so many people, but it wasn't unitl I had had enough, did I stop.......didn't matter to me how fed up they were.....it was all about me..Damn I hate writing that..but so truthful it is.
good Luck and God bless
