What To Do?

Hi, Im Nel.
I told my husband that if he went to treatment, that I would stand by him and be there for him. And he is at this time in tretment and doing well. He has 6 months to go. And yes im worried. All the things that have happened, and all the things that i went thru are playing in my head. But I do love him. And he really is a wonderfull person. But Dam Im scared as hell. I ask that you Pray for me and my family. My brothers are all on crack. My Nephew , My old Friends , And I have some very strong women who are married to these men. Man we all need help. It's just that they dont see what I see. I have been told by my brothers that if they were my husband that they wouldnt come back to me. Becouse I put him out , becouse of his using and drinking and his abuse. They say that there women have not asked them to leave becouse they women love them. I dont love my husband. I'm so confused please help.
Nel

This world is such a mess, sweetheart you deserve proper answers, maybe you can go to this website - there is a search engine and you can type any subject in the box (ie drugs, alcohol, child abuse, future, - you will get God's view on everything and also the solutions please take a look, there's absolutely no obligation just browse at your leisure, it will help and give you comfort beyond what any human is able to do, please take carexx here's the web address www.watchtower.org
Dear Nel,

By your actions, your husband is getting help in rehab. Where are the rest of those users whose wives love them? My 29 year old son is an addict and he has lied, broken the law, stolen from us and from stores...but all of that was done under the control of heroin. I still love him with all my heart and will do anything in my power to help him get well, but it is in his hands. He is currently in rehab and doing very well. Ask God to heal some of your hurts and give you the strength to deal with this situation. I will keep you and your husband in my prayers and would appreciate it if you would pray for my son Harry to continue on his road to recovery. Also, I recommend that you get to some Alanon meetings for yourself. It is so emotionally draining to love an addict!

God bless!

Love,
Susan

nell, you need to break from the pack.

i think that you sense that what you have been told is untrue and a distorted notion of love, told to you by addicts.

you are not in a contest with other women.

this site might help you better understand what you are dealing with.


http://www.crackreality.com/
I thank you all for the love and friendship. I will go on the web sites suggested. YES I WILL PRAY THAT ALL YOUR SON'S DAYS BE FIELD WITH GOD'S GOODNESS. AND GOD'S LOVE AND FORGIVNESS. AND I PRAY FOR EVERYONE WHO LOVES, ARE WHO IS A ADDICT , OR A ADDICT IN RECOVERY.