hi
I think my girl friend has been using speed yet has denied it. however when she feels sick she is blaming me and accuses me of spiking her food or drinks. I have never done drugs and can not understand how someone can blame someones else for something they are doing to themselves.. can someone enlighten an ignorrant person
Thanks
Dave
Why would she think that her own bf would spike her drink? Kinda paranoid. How long have you two been together?
We have been together on and off for 15 months. we went to school together. I have to say we are both in our 40's. We only met up again 15 months ago. She has told me of previous guy's she has been with and has accused them of giving her something. I know she is paranoid, I just cant understand how anyone who takes speed themselves can look me in the eyes and say I am the one giving her something to make her sick.
YOU CANT ARGUE WITH A SICK MIND
Dave, I am not trying to be funny at all, so please don't take it that way. But, has she had any psychiatric evaluations? She almost sounds schizophrenic, which is also dangerous to herself and others. I have had friends who have this and it is very serious. Plus, meth makes you paranoid. But, i don't see why she is blaming others either.
Hi Dave,
It's extremely common for meth addicts to think and accuse people of trying to poison them, they think people are putting all kinds of things in their food and drinks. I deal with this for years now, my daughter who is very heavy user accuses me and others she is around of this. They will often only drink smaller water bottles they can take with them, because the large ones left at home can be tampered with. They will even take their food with them also. My daughter was to take antibiotics for dog bite and told me she would only take them in tablet form, not capsule. My other daughter is not as severe addict and her little son told me recently that his mom didn't want me in their kitchen. I was surprised that she too is thinking this way. Also, I've read from article link on this site that meth addicts are weary of taking medications. It's not them that is talking, it's meth doing the talking.
It's extremely common for meth addicts to think and accuse people of trying to poison them, they think people are putting all kinds of things in their food and drinks. I deal with this for years now, my daughter who is very heavy user accuses me and others she is around of this. They will often only drink smaller water bottles they can take with them, because the large ones left at home can be tampered with. They will even take their food with them also. My daughter was to take antibiotics for dog bite and told me she would only take them in tablet form, not capsule. My other daughter is not as severe addict and her little son told me recently that his mom didn't want me in their kitchen. I was surprised that she too is thinking this way. Also, I've read from article link on this site that meth addicts are weary of taking medications. It's not them that is talking, it's meth doing the talking.
Hi
thanks for all your input, no she hasn't had any treatments, 8 months ago she said she wasn't taking speed anymore. I believed her, probably cause i wanted it to be true. In talking with her since she still says she doesn't take it anymore.I cant catch her taking it but I feel from some of her actions and the fact I catch her lying about certain things, that she still uses it sometimes. I guess I have to make a decision about our relationship.. I find it difficult to just walk away like all my friends and family keep telling me to do. I love the girl and just want to somehow help her. Thanks anyway for advice
Dave
thanks for all your input, no she hasn't had any treatments, 8 months ago she said she wasn't taking speed anymore. I believed her, probably cause i wanted it to be true. In talking with her since she still says she doesn't take it anymore.I cant catch her taking it but I feel from some of her actions and the fact I catch her lying about certain things, that she still uses it sometimes. I guess I have to make a decision about our relationship.. I find it difficult to just walk away like all my friends and family keep telling me to do. I love the girl and just want to somehow help her. Thanks anyway for advice
Dave
Dave, speaking from experience the best thing to do is give her an ultimatum. My husband did with me. He even made me move out for a while while i was getting clean. Your gf is gonna have to want help bf she actually stays clean. I am so sorry that you are having to go thru this, but trust me, the best thing for her is to get some tough love.
Love and God Bless,
Briana :)
Love and God Bless,
Briana :)
Thanks Briana
You take care
Dave
You take care
Dave
You too Dave. :)
Dave, you sound like such a loving man, and I know your heart is breaking. The best thing you can do is inform yourself so you know what to look for...it takes a long time to get "the proof" that we think we need. Trust your gut, you're probably right. Research some rehabs and give her the numbers to call. The only way out of this is if she gets treatment...she isn't herself right now, Dave; so you don't have her anyway...if she gets treatment, you'll get your beautiful girlfriend back. Good luck to you. It's good to know there are caring men out there like yourself..just remember you deserve to be loved back in return.
Thanks heartache,
I am 45 and never been involved in drugs or even new of anyone close that used them. Until I meet suzie. I guess I'm on these sites trying to find some answers for myself cause I have no idea what it's all about, what the signs are or more importantly, what can i do to help her? I have lead a sheltered life in country Australia it would seem. Thanks again, I will help her somehow. Cheers
I am 45 and never been involved in drugs or even new of anyone close that used them. Until I meet suzie. I guess I'm on these sites trying to find some answers for myself cause I have no idea what it's all about, what the signs are or more importantly, what can i do to help her? I have lead a sheltered life in country Australia it would seem. Thanks again, I will help her somehow. Cheers
