Guys, well I guess anyone........what's with the addiction and relationships?
How long ya got to be clean to get a clue? I guess it's all connected.
My "gentleman friend" never gets sick. He certainly never complains. Frankly he was instrumental in helping me help myself when I was trying to get clean.
I'll tell ya at this point I'm not well just not all into the partner thing. God forgive me but I'm just not, BUT.................................
So he got that intestinal thing going around. Dude's been nasty as all hell the last few days. Mind ya I do not live with him and see him briefly I guess daily.
Sooooo, I go up to his place tonight with fennel seed to make a tea.
If we were younger I would NEVER pop up there unannounced. I always had a key to his place, but gave it back months ago as he'd swear I took something or moved something. Blah, blah. I also called from the cell a block away.
THis guy screams "I'm laying down and I'll have to get up and come all the way down the steps, and I don't want that crap tea". Yeah, well then alright, A-Hole it's your call. So, I took my tail and went to go do some shopping and he called back. All nasty. "What's this crap you made, and how will it help? Come back up cause I opened the door".
STUPID me did go back. Well, the yelling went on. He was laying down and I had it boiling and he's watching and goes "I ain't drinking that crap. You NEVER come over anymore, and NOW you come over".
I said this as I put my coat on "Ya know what? You complained I never do anything nice for you. I walked my arse up here carrying all this crap and now I get this?" Coat on and stepts taken. See, first getting clean I would have cried.
Pffffffff, Yo big whoop you don't appreciate anyone. He's all saying "Where ya going? Now what ya gonna cry?"
Duh, naw, man I got more painful things to cry about. I waved and went on my way. What is that about???????? I never go to his place anymore. Seems like he almost wanted me to bug him. Whtd up wit that? Just wondering and asking another perspective cause at that moment I said in my head "That's DONE".........Nah I ain't needing that.
Reading ur post did kinda make me giggle...LOL...im soz..i dont mean 2 b bad...but it woz just kinda funny the way u told it - i dont suppose it woz v funny wen it was happnin???
Sounds like u need to re evaluate that relationship an decide iz it worth the sh** u get - do the good times out weigh the bad etc etc.
U been wiv the guy a long time by sounds of it so i know itz gonna b hard 4 ya to decide if it iz still workin out.
Relationships really aint my strong point....
But u were being nice 2 the guy an he was all stroppy - i know hes ill but still...u dont hav 2 put up wiv that sh** from no one....only u know the REAL score.
TM07
Sounds like u need to re evaluate that relationship an decide iz it worth the sh** u get - do the good times out weigh the bad etc etc.
U been wiv the guy a long time by sounds of it so i know itz gonna b hard 4 ya to decide if it iz still workin out.
Relationships really aint my strong point....
But u were being nice 2 the guy an he was all stroppy - i know hes ill but still...u dont hav 2 put up wiv that sh** from no one....only u know the REAL score.
TM07
Ha! Bryn, now I know I'm not alone! I know that there are good men out there, but I'm buggered if I can find one. I'm currently at a loss for words as far as that turd I live with is concerned. He went out to Cardiff to see 10cc on Friday, having spent all day in the pub, got totally wasted, didn't even ask how it went with the obstetrician. Crawled home in the early hours of Saturday morning, spent most of the day in bed with a hangover. I tried everything I could to be nice to him, but he was just an arse with me, ordering me about etc. I was so embarressed that he treated me like that in front of my mother, when I'm waddling around and fed up myself because of the eternal pregnancy. Anyway, as I go to bed, I say good night, and he asks me if I've stopped being such a twat. I tell him I'm just fed up. He says "You're fed up?" like I didn't have a reason to be. So I ask him what he's got be fed up with. Everything, he tells me, why, what the f*** is wrong with you? I just got up and walked away. I just can't believe what a selfish twat he is.
Now he's moaning at me about not having anything to eat, and wants me to cook him dinner, so he can go out to the pub again to watch football. I hope and pray this kid comes whilst he's out, coz I sure as hell ain't gonna be ringing him and telling him. He ain't invited to that particular gig, the way he treats me. I really think I hate him right now.
Sorry Bryn, for going on again. I'm just in a "All men are twats" mood!
love
Diff xxx
Now he's moaning at me about not having anything to eat, and wants me to cook him dinner, so he can go out to the pub again to watch football. I hope and pray this kid comes whilst he's out, coz I sure as hell ain't gonna be ringing him and telling him. He ain't invited to that particular gig, the way he treats me. I really think I hate him right now.
Sorry Bryn, for going on again. I'm just in a "All men are twats" mood!
love
Diff xxx
Maybe all us good guys are taken.. lol
Sandy might argue with_ "me & good guy"_ being in the same sentence- but she hasn't dumped me yet
I don't think relationships are made- they just kind of happen and then evolve
Takeitslow
muchlove> jack
Sandy might argue with_ "me & good guy"_ being in the same sentence- but she hasn't dumped me yet
I don't think relationships are made- they just kind of happen and then evolve
Takeitslow
muchlove> jack
Yeh ...Jack all us good fellas deffo.must be taken..in my case its taken by my 7yr.old,....but i think if any prospective female may have to take 2nd.place...Sian i know would give her marks out of 10..coz she did it with a g/f i had last yr....she only scored her a 6...funnily enough the relationship lasted only 3mnth....who knows???
Diff....not gonna tell ya anthin ya dont know...but reading about that bit of pond life really gets my goat,..why even bother being nice..suppose its easier than having anger inside,...but he really is the lowest of the low..a true coward.Glad hes not gonna be at the birth..he would prob.turn up pissed anyhow.
Take care...all specially you Diff...........Davey
Diff....not gonna tell ya anthin ya dont know...but reading about that bit of pond life really gets my goat,..why even bother being nice..suppose its easier than having anger inside,...but he really is the lowest of the low..a true coward.Glad hes not gonna be at the birth..he would prob.turn up pissed anyhow.
Take care...all specially you Diff...........Davey
He sounds like a real caring person. He puts others needs, concerns and feelings ahead of his own. What a nice guy. (Was today opposite day?)
I can't figure chit out about relationships or in general dealing with other peoples bull****. I don't get it.... I know i can't solve my own issues let alone anyone elses. MEN are strange creatures indeed.... i've never got close at figuring em out. I'ld sware they have PMS too sometimes my man acts like a jerk it last 3-4 days then he's himself "must be hormonal" lol. Today we were shoping i put the eggs in the back of the cart "not the front". He was like," in 29 years you never learned how to shop?." I let it go "screw him". Next thing you know he put's the baby wash in the back IT LEAKS on a box. AHHHH i said damn in 35 years you did not learn to check the caps on iquid?. My brother say's he's mean to his girlfriend so when he dose something nice she can appreciate it.
Hi all, Davey, I guess it's a fine line between allowing yourself to be a doormat and being peaceful. I think it's down to how you feel inside. That's the important thing. It depends on whether you allow them to "get the You in you" as John Irving puts it. And I think that largely relies on how you strive for a quiet mind, how you allow your thoughts to become ordered, how you look deep inside for the internal strength to put aside the hurt you cannot control. I believe in Serenity. I look for peace, and when peace is hard to find, that's when you must go quiet and let it come to you. I am aware of my own strength and worth.
"Peace is inevitable to those who offer peace..." from "A course in miracles"
"From Serenity comes gentleness, comes lasting strength..." Pam Brown, b. 1928
love
Diff xxx
"Peace is inevitable to those who offer peace..." from "A course in miracles"
"From Serenity comes gentleness, comes lasting strength..." Pam Brown, b. 1928
love
Diff xxx
Diff..of course yer right..i suppose i tried to condence it when i said its easier to get along rather than be angry ....just you&everyone on here know ya deserve much better..that prob.kicks me off.Its a long journey..and your well travelled..so heres to the future.
Bryn..call that Evian order back...cheers........Davey
Bryn..call that Evian order back...cheers........Davey
This song is for you Bryn. (Just replace a few words.)
Paul Thorn - Great Day to Whoop Someboby's a**
Have you ever had one of those days when nothin' goes right
Your (boyfriend)wife starts bitchin' about whatever it was (he)she was bitchin' about last night
So you escape into the bathroom just to sit there on your throne
But after you finish your business, the toilet paper's gone
Well it's a great day for me to whoop somebody's a**
It's a bad day, so you better get off my back
You might get cold-cocked if you cross my path
Cause it's a great day for me to whoop somebody's a**
Well I was runnin' late for work so I poured me some coffee to go
And just before I had a flat tire, I spilled it all over my clothes
When the highway patrolman pulled up I thought that help was on the way
But when he saw the tire tool in my hand he shot me with pepper spray
Well it's a great day for me to whoop somebody's a**
It's a bad day, so you better get off my back
You might get cold-cocked if you cross my path
Cause it's a great day for me to whoop somebody's a**
When I finally made it to work I was 15 minutes late
I told my boss about the flat tire but he fired me anyway
So here I am out in the parking lot just waiting by his Corvette
I'm gonna give him a goodbye present that he never will forget
Well it's a great day for me to whoop somebody's a**
It's a bad day, so you better get off my back
You might get cold-cocked if you cross my path
Cause it's a great day for me to whoop somebody's as
Paul Thorn - Great Day to Whoop Someboby's a**
Have you ever had one of those days when nothin' goes right
Your (boyfriend)wife starts bitchin' about whatever it was (he)she was bitchin' about last night
So you escape into the bathroom just to sit there on your throne
But after you finish your business, the toilet paper's gone
Well it's a great day for me to whoop somebody's a**
It's a bad day, so you better get off my back
You might get cold-cocked if you cross my path
Cause it's a great day for me to whoop somebody's a**
Well I was runnin' late for work so I poured me some coffee to go
And just before I had a flat tire, I spilled it all over my clothes
When the highway patrolman pulled up I thought that help was on the way
But when he saw the tire tool in my hand he shot me with pepper spray
Well it's a great day for me to whoop somebody's a**
It's a bad day, so you better get off my back
You might get cold-cocked if you cross my path
Cause it's a great day for me to whoop somebody's a**
When I finally made it to work I was 15 minutes late
I told my boss about the flat tire but he fired me anyway
So here I am out in the parking lot just waiting by his Corvette
I'm gonna give him a goodbye present that he never will forget
Well it's a great day for me to whoop somebody's a**
It's a bad day, so you better get off my back
You might get cold-cocked if you cross my path
Cause it's a great day for me to whoop somebody's as
ALRIGHT, Hurt Dad.........you got me addicted........I looked up this Thorn fellow and am loving him........Tupelo, huh? His stuff is great, and thank you for that, Hurt Dad.........I'm going to get his two CD's.....story of life, right?
O.K. so yeah it was my wah, wahing, but Diff got more to wah about.
This dude is not my husband nor the father of my child. I was married at one time actually. I have never lived with this cat either. I certainly don't keep much company with him anymore. Actaully, I don't even know what to call it this relationship. Dood, harps I don't do nothing for him. Well, than scram.
Here's a lesson. I knew this guy since we were kids. He keeps reminding me how he asked me out a million times and I had a boyfriend every time. Well, yeah I did. So get a clue, pal. THEN you guessed it???????? I was DOPE SICK! I NEEDED DOPE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I ran into this guy and well of course I had to borrow some money!!!!!!!!!!!!
He gave the money up real quick while asking me to smoke some reefer. I DO NOT SMOKE REEFER. Never did. I was never a pot smoker, and that dude knew it. Ask Tres, for real I don't smoke pot. So, when he handed me $40.00 I saw a fat roll of lott, and BAM there's my new friend.
That poor guy had no idea I was a heroin addict. I borrowed more money off him that I could have mortgaged a house. No, not borrowed TOOK!!!!! Hahahaha.
He says "You never BORROWED money because BORROW means ya pay it back". Yeah, well ya know!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He did help me. Lord, knows he helped me and let me kick there, and well just about anything a kind person can do for ya.
Sooooooo, what's up with the other day?????????? I think a person who is not happy with himself. I'm starting to see he's forgetting things as well. Maybe he got "SOMETIMERS". Oh well, he's mean. Not my problem except for the other day. I thought how rude?
Davey and Jack and Hurt Dad......you guys I know are good men. Also I know women can be a royal pain in the hinney. I try to think like a dude. Can't act like one. This isn't all men. Honestly. I LOVE men. I guess it's a backward day is right!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Good old Hurt Dad. Upside down day.
Diff, I don't know what to tell ya, honey. I really don't. Throw a pot of spaghetti water on him while he's in bed asleep. It seems making things more difficult for men like that irks them!!!!!!!!!! Yepper.
O.K. so yeah it was my wah, wahing, but Diff got more to wah about.
This dude is not my husband nor the father of my child. I was married at one time actually. I have never lived with this cat either. I certainly don't keep much company with him anymore. Actaully, I don't even know what to call it this relationship. Dood, harps I don't do nothing for him. Well, than scram.
Here's a lesson. I knew this guy since we were kids. He keeps reminding me how he asked me out a million times and I had a boyfriend every time. Well, yeah I did. So get a clue, pal. THEN you guessed it???????? I was DOPE SICK! I NEEDED DOPE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I ran into this guy and well of course I had to borrow some money!!!!!!!!!!!!
He gave the money up real quick while asking me to smoke some reefer. I DO NOT SMOKE REEFER. Never did. I was never a pot smoker, and that dude knew it. Ask Tres, for real I don't smoke pot. So, when he handed me $40.00 I saw a fat roll of lott, and BAM there's my new friend.
That poor guy had no idea I was a heroin addict. I borrowed more money off him that I could have mortgaged a house. No, not borrowed TOOK!!!!! Hahahaha.
He says "You never BORROWED money because BORROW means ya pay it back". Yeah, well ya know!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He did help me. Lord, knows he helped me and let me kick there, and well just about anything a kind person can do for ya.
Sooooooo, what's up with the other day?????????? I think a person who is not happy with himself. I'm starting to see he's forgetting things as well. Maybe he got "SOMETIMERS". Oh well, he's mean. Not my problem except for the other day. I thought how rude?
Davey and Jack and Hurt Dad......you guys I know are good men. Also I know women can be a royal pain in the hinney. I try to think like a dude. Can't act like one. This isn't all men. Honestly. I LOVE men. I guess it's a backward day is right!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Good old Hurt Dad. Upside down day.
Diff, I don't know what to tell ya, honey. I really don't. Throw a pot of spaghetti water on him while he's in bed asleep. It seems making things more difficult for men like that irks them!!!!!!!!!! Yepper.
