Well we are 24 hours into this thing called withdrawl and he is hanging on. It might be only by a thread but thats good enough for now. I can't go by days yet, we are just taking it an hour, minute, or secong at a time. Whatever we can do to get by. Thanks Bob for all the information you provided in earlier posts. I know you said I should look into support for me but this message board is what I need. It has been a lifesaver and has kept me sane. Tonight after the kids are tucked into bed maybe I can tell my story ( if I got the guts) which is somewhat different from other posting here and no where near as bad to me, but something that is in the back of my mind when things are real bad. Now is one of those real bad times.
All I can say right now is your husband is very lucky to have smeone as caring and compassionate as you are. Post as often as you need to. As Bob said you need support too.
There's no question that wd's can make us miserable, but they will go away and the rewards are well worth it. Soon your husband should be making a plan for recovery after the wd's have subsided, but for now stay strong, reach out for support, pray, go for a walk...do whatever it takes, just for today.
Jim
There's no question that wd's can make us miserable, but they will go away and the rewards are well worth it. Soon your husband should be making a plan for recovery after the wd's have subsided, but for now stay strong, reach out for support, pray, go for a walk...do whatever it takes, just for today.
Jim