Hi All,
You can't control the actions of another...sometimes you want to get even and want them to hurt like you do...but you come to a point and realize that you are just too insignificant and not much of a match and have to step off..
do the 'bad' guys eventually reap what they sow...it doesn't seem that way or does it just take longer than expected....in God's time..they say...but you have to wonder does God forget to mete out justice or is He just biding His time for the right time.
wish i was stronger
luv MARY
Mary, Mary where are you going to? What song is that from?
Good question, Mary. Says me anyway. In short the answer is NO!!! LOL Seriously I do not think so. I'm supposed to say "OF COURSE" there's KARMA, honey, but alas NO. Creepy, mean, ugly people seem to get away with any old thing they want.
The problem is US. We are not supposed to spend one second of our energy on the creepy people. Don't feed it. But we got to. I think it's the Martyr Complex in my case. Like, I was so good to you, and nice, and now you blow me off like I am nada. Oh, no you don't. Then I put a whammy curse on them, and hope it takes. I'm kidding.
Well, maybe this will help, Mary. In the words of Eric Clapton or whoever wrote this song he sings. Has to be an old blues person wrote it. "Further On Up The Road, somebody is gonna hurt you like your hurt me. ......you reap what you sow that old saying is true".
Nah it ain't, but I love that song. Carry on Mary/Mary, and just whammy the already self whammied man.
Good question, Mary. Says me anyway. In short the answer is NO!!! LOL Seriously I do not think so. I'm supposed to say "OF COURSE" there's KARMA, honey, but alas NO. Creepy, mean, ugly people seem to get away with any old thing they want.
The problem is US. We are not supposed to spend one second of our energy on the creepy people. Don't feed it. But we got to. I think it's the Martyr Complex in my case. Like, I was so good to you, and nice, and now you blow me off like I am nada. Oh, no you don't. Then I put a whammy curse on them, and hope it takes. I'm kidding.
Well, maybe this will help, Mary. In the words of Eric Clapton or whoever wrote this song he sings. Has to be an old blues person wrote it. "Further On Up The Road, somebody is gonna hurt you like your hurt me. ......you reap what you sow that old saying is true".
Nah it ain't, but I love that song. Carry on Mary/Mary, and just whammy the already self whammied man.
Interesting question....
I kinda think like Bryn in this, evil mother f*ckers seem to just walk this earth with not much in the way of payback....I often wonder what the pupose is for some here.....
But then are thier lives really what we would ever want to have for us, or to be a part of....
Karma I do have a belief in and I try to never mess with it!
Mary he drives you nuts in your head. I know you so want something from him but you are never gonna get anything by pain, heartache, insane questioning of yourself ( Your blame, guilt ) from him. I wish you could let him go, let the endless questions go and just live life. You are cheating yourself in so many ways. That is your right, but it is sad to watch....
Take care of you, and love you.....
Love,
Tina
I kinda think like Bryn in this, evil mother f*ckers seem to just walk this earth with not much in the way of payback....I often wonder what the pupose is for some here.....
But then are thier lives really what we would ever want to have for us, or to be a part of....
Karma I do have a belief in and I try to never mess with it!
Mary he drives you nuts in your head. I know you so want something from him but you are never gonna get anything by pain, heartache, insane questioning of yourself ( Your blame, guilt ) from him. I wish you could let him go, let the endless questions go and just live life. You are cheating yourself in so many ways. That is your right, but it is sad to watch....
Take care of you, and love you.....
Love,
Tina
I do believe in karma. Recently a couple of people who caused extreme harm to me like well over 5 yrs plus, one maybe 12 yrs ago rec'd life in prison, at this point its so far behind me then when i heard I really didnt react. As I get older I am very aware of what karma can do.
Carol
Carol
Hi guys, I was thinking about what you were saying and i guess lots of us ask the same question, will they ever get there day? I have many of times asked myself that question as i know a few people who skate through life with not a care in the world, not a second thought how they treat people and just walk away from it and would not give you a second thought. There is all walks of life, my mum says this to me often that there is givers and takers in this world victims and perpatrators, winners and loosers etc..................
I really do believe that no one can go through life treating people like dirty hurting you, hurting your family, praying on you when your vunrealbe, taking total liberties..and these people just seem to sail through life with not a care in the world.......I dont know anything about karma but i believe they do get whats coming to them at some stage in their lifes...
Just my thoughts
Yvonne
I really do believe that no one can go through life treating people like dirty hurting you, hurting your family, praying on you when your vunrealbe, taking total liberties..and these people just seem to sail through life with not a care in the world.......I dont know anything about karma but i believe they do get whats coming to them at some stage in their lifes...
Just my thoughts
Yvonne
You may not see it from your point of view. But I do believe they get thier turn. Have you never been on the wrong side of Karma. If not god bless you, don't go there. I
Jane
Jane
I think sometimes people do get what they deserved but, in large they don't.. Oddley thou i've done things I HOPE i never have to pay for. Mostly mental crap i've put my mom thru.I've seen more times when the people who are not screw up's suffer needlessly. Then there are a few people I PRAY GET THEIRS in the end. I ""don't"" belive in karma i belive bad things happen to everyone it's not the worlds way of paying you back for something you did when you were 20. Proof about karma not being real babies and toddlers are abused there is no damn way they got it because of something they did. Karma's a nice ideal but, i can give more examples that it's not real then examples that it is real.
No mary, you don't come to a point where you're just too insignificant... You eventually get to a point where you realise that you don't give a f*** any more. There's no point in agonising over his actions. Coz it just ain't worth your while. You don't need to be stronger, you need to be more selfish. Take back your life. Life is a precious gift, don't go squandering it being bloody miserable. Yes, we all have miserable phases, but you need a plan to get out of it, you can't just swim round in circles forever, coz eventually you'll drown. Cutting him out of your heart won't be an overnight job, but you have to do whatever you need to do to move towards that end.Mary, I know this is a terrible phrase, but it's meant in the kindest way - get a life girl! Coz right now you're just a phantom extension of his life. Like an amputated limb that can still feel pain.
I'm really sorry to be tough on you, and God knows that I've no room to talk, but you have to find a way to move on from him. It's essential to your survival, so get into survival mode and Goddamned survive woman! I want you to live, I want you to want to live! I only say this coz I care about you.
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I'm really sorry to be tough on you, and God knows that I've no room to talk, but you have to find a way to move on from him. It's essential to your survival, so get into survival mode and Goddamned survive woman! I want you to live, I want you to want to live! I only say this coz I care about you.
loadsalove
Diff xxxxxxxoxxxxxxxx
And to answer your question do people reap what they sow. I believe so, coz that's my experience, and don't forget people suffer in many different ways, so where you may see getting away with murder, they may feel eternal damnation, and you may never know. But the bottom line is: WHO GIVES A f***!!!!! Go back to your serenity prayer Mary, and let go of what you can't change. And be wise Mary. You know what I'm talking about. Be the wily wolf. Do what you have to do to survive and commit to it and you'll find the strength. Day by day it will come to you.
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Diff xxxx
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