I only found this website this morning and already I like it.....
This is the second article I saw (thanks to my HP!) and it did two things for me -
1. Reminded me what a gift Valarie gave me yesterday in being patient enough and strong enough and kind enough to tolerate my human confusion and failing. The stillness she created between us let me find a genuine insight that I hope will help me to change.
2. Made me understand yet more about how I contributed to my ex's discomfort and - more positively - how I can demonstrate genuine compassion in the future.
http://www.urbanmonk.net/198/the-in...indness-part-3/
Hey Martin,
You are giving me too much credit here. You are the one that took my observations without getting defensive. You were open to hear it yesterday. Stop giving other people the power and credit over your behavior. That's how you will set yourself up to get hurt again. Does that make sense? I just felt you were beginning to take things way out of context. The reason I saw it in you is because it is a behavior that I have demonstrated.
Have a sober peaceful day.
P.S. Sometimes life isn't as complicated as we would like to think it is.
You are giving me too much credit here. You are the one that took my observations without getting defensive. You were open to hear it yesterday. Stop giving other people the power and credit over your behavior. That's how you will set yourself up to get hurt again. Does that make sense? I just felt you were beginning to take things way out of context. The reason I saw it in you is because it is a behavior that I have demonstrated.
Have a sober peaceful day.
P.S. Sometimes life isn't as complicated as we would like to think it is.
Got you. Thanks. I really do. Can we just say it takes two to tango...?
Have a great day.
Have a great day.
Yep! :-)
