I haven't been on this forum for ages years. I don't suppose any of you will remember but my man was an addict for many years. 20 + and he beat it he was brilliant and beautiful a and clever and this week he died of an epileptic fit. Words can't express but I want those who remember us to know that he did it and was good. To you others that even at it's worst when you think there is no hope that you have to believe. But you can't do anything except be an example of what being clean is. Smile laugh enjoy your life enjoy them when they are well. That makes them want to have what you have. My man tried to never let it effect me he was a good man with a bad problem it's too easy to blame heroin for bad behaviour. Good luck. I lost him on Tuesday 29th July aged 54 I'll miss him forever.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, So sorry for your loss.
Hi jazwan. my sympathies to you and your family...
I'm SO, SO SORRY to hear this, Jazwan!!! Bless your heart! I remember you well! I too haven't been on the board for quite some time. I check in every once in a while. My son has over 3 years clean...but he's having some health issues and the doctors haven't been able to diagnose him yet. Please keep him (Harry) in your prayers! You can be assured of my prayers for you. God bless!
<3 Susan
<3 Susan
Susan 3 years clean that's brilliant my man was 5 maybe. I'll keep Harry in my prayers. I've read some posts seems many are still on that merrygoround. Seems so long ago Tina, Cynical, Jack many and I reach for you again in times of need we got to get together xxx
Jaz, much love and ((hugs)) to you on the loss of your man. My heart breaks for you, but I am so glad you got to enjoy those give clean years in addition to all the other good ones. You were always so very good at separating the man from the addiction and staying save in the middle of the insanity...that was his, he was yours.
I'll keep him you all in my meditations xo
I'll keep him you all in my meditations xo
Thank you x
Jazwan, I don't know what made me come on here today, I haven't checked in for over a year. I'm so heartbroken for you. I know there are no words I can say that will comfort you, its so raw. Its more than five years since my fiance died and I still think of him daily. You helped me so much when I was so so desperate and I just wanted to reach out to you and send you my love.
Stay strong you wonderful woman and take heart in the love you were so lucky to have.
xxxxxx
Stay strong you wonderful woman and take heart in the love you were so lucky to have.
xxxxxx
(((Jaz)))
You have inspired me so many times over the years & showed me by sharing here how to love an addict whether they are active or clean. I learned by listening how to let go of the judging and waiting for them to get clean and instead, just love them and I'm very grateful for that as my son hasn't been able to get clean but that's ok, does not change how I love him anymore.
My deepest condolences to you and your daughter. May your Man be at eternal peace now.
All my love,
Stacey
You have inspired me so many times over the years & showed me by sharing here how to love an addict whether they are active or clean. I learned by listening how to let go of the judging and waiting for them to get clean and instead, just love them and I'm very grateful for that as my son hasn't been able to get clean but that's ok, does not change how I love him anymore.
My deepest condolences to you and your daughter. May your Man be at eternal peace now.
All my love,
Stacey
