Me and my Wide have been married 6 years and as everyone does we argued alot about stupid things. things eventually got so bad About 3 months ago we decited to take a break from eachother. Getting back together a month later i thought everything was gunna be ok. Come to find out while we were apart she got into drugs.At first just telling me about pills and such she finally admited to trying ice and herion. She told me it was only a fase and that she was over it. The lies started. For about a month she was going behind my back using herion. After awhile i started to catch on to her lies and confrunted her and she admited she still was useing. She wants to stop she says but cant. We have a 2 year old daughter. Everything is just real defferent. We need help please any advise is good thank you
Hi as a addict for over 20 years I can offer some advice. My advice may not be correct as I am no expert. Your wife is deeply unhappy. She is self medicating to ease the emotional pain she feels. She may not know herself what it is yet. If u truly love her then prepare yourself for a long and bumpy road of UPS an down. If she truly loves u to u can help her a number of ways. Keep her safe. Don't try an understand what u can't. Persuade her she needs experienced professional help. Praise. Her when she is trying. Also I would remind her that the longer she is addicted to heroin the harder it is to stop.
Hi Billy,
As a recovering heroin addict myself heroin is indeed a drug unto itself. The person who posted below you, "wastinmylife" speaks the truth.
I would highly suggest you go to the Family message board here and talk to the people who have or are walking in your shoes. There is hope but take care of YOU and your little girl FIRST and foremost, then your wife. This is her battle and she wont win it until she is ready.
The folks on the family board will help you and guide you. Listen to what they have to say and good lucky sweetie.
Granny
As a recovering heroin addict myself heroin is indeed a drug unto itself. The person who posted below you, "wastinmylife" speaks the truth.
I would highly suggest you go to the Family message board here and talk to the people who have or are walking in your shoes. There is hope but take care of YOU and your little girl FIRST and foremost, then your wife. This is her battle and she wont win it until she is ready.
The folks on the family board will help you and guide you. Listen to what they have to say and good lucky sweetie.
Granny
wastinmylife,
Those are some good words you gave to Billy. I used because I was unhappy and felt trapped. It was nothing compared to what I went thru during my heroin addiction.
I have been clean 20 years now and grateful for every day.
granny
Those are some good words you gave to Billy. I used because I was unhappy and felt trapped. It was nothing compared to what I went thru during my heroin addiction.
I have been clean 20 years now and grateful for every day.
granny
