hey ladies : )
i',m doing pretty allright. i have a field trip with cj today at will be a long day. but its my favorite place to go. its green field village and henryford museum. i so way love art and history,so thats my huge excitement. i have ti plant flowers i gotr fpr mothers day. i mean come on now. 1st of all i already told you i hate plants. i end up killing them (on accident so how pretty is that?) second of all they want me to dig and plant them too?!?!?!?!?! i think not :P
terrianne
Good morning all, forgive me but I am sad today. My 6 year old Ricky who has cerebral palsy, is really struggling in Kindergarten, so much so, that he's getting into trouble. He is frustrated why the kids can hold a pencil and write their name, and he can't. So his behavior has gone down hill, even at home, he's hitting, saying bad things, like I hate you and so on. I have been thinking about home schooling him, but I don't want him to miss out on social skills. He makes me cry at how unhappy he is. I also tend to spoil him, because he was born at 26 weeks, at 1 pound 10 ounces, with a 10% chance of survival. Any suggestions? I'm sorry this is off topic, but I need and "outside" point of view. Love you all, Kim ;-(
Goodmorning sweety.Does he go to regular classes?If so is there other classes he can attend or a day school that can help with his simple skills?My heart goes out to you huny.My girls are both healthy THANK GOODNESS but Ill tell ya my youngest is in 6th grade & STILL gets extra help cause she has a hard time reading.I know the fustration as a mom.Ive seen it in my girl.She always feels like shes dum what I tell her is this...Your NOT dum it may take you longer to learn something but YOU DO LEARN.I wish I had good advice to give you.Our children have a way of holding our hearts & squeezen......mj
Morning Kim,
I am so sorry to hear this x
But boy, he sounds like a little miricle!!! if his survival rate was 10%!!!!
I haven't got any kids so I dont really know about schooling ect but surely theres a special school he could attend? where he would fit in, do they have any schools for kids with special needs? or perhaps you could home school him but take him to some kinda meeting place where he could mix with other children? I'm sorry kim I have'nt really got any good advice about this, I wish I did have x
But know you are one strong woman and i am awe-inspired by you, all you're goin through and have been through x
love
Gabbi
Terri, now you get planting those mothers day plants, go on!!! you need to dig then plant x
Thanks MJ, and Gabbs, the only special needs schools they have are for severely disabled..which he isn't, and it is 3 hours away. He's only mild disabled. In school, he gets 17 hours of therapy is school, they take him to a different classroom with other kids, and has physical therapy, occupational therapy, etc. It just doesn't seem to be helping. It's like when Ricky gets home, he explodes, like in school he keeps everything bottled up? It's breaking my heart..like a bad mom, because I don't know how to make a six year old happy? AAARRRGGGG..Sorry to vent, I am at my wits end...Love ya, Kim
Vent away Kim x
This may be a stupid question, but have you asked him why he explodes when he gets home? could he tell ya why? or is it just frustration?
This may be a stupid question, but have you asked him why he explodes when he gets home? could he tell ya why? or is it just frustration?
awe man gabby,
i just got a nice french manicure too. ok ok i'll wear gloves i'm not that huge of a priss and they can always be fixed. besides i'm recruiting you fo help!!!!! how ya like the that?!?! i expect them to be all planted by time i get back frim our field trip hehehehe.
kim,
thats a tough one. i know what i would do. but i am sure you already do this anyway. but i would certainly shower and smother him with love and affection gain his trust and as gabby says try and talk to him on a level he can understand about what is troubling him and maybe you can get him help on that same level. i wish you all the luck ever, he sounds like one heck of a special man!!! what a blessing : )
terrianne
i just got a nice french manicure too. ok ok i'll wear gloves i'm not that huge of a priss and they can always be fixed. besides i'm recruiting you fo help!!!!! how ya like the that?!?! i expect them to be all planted by time i get back frim our field trip hehehehe.
kim,
thats a tough one. i know what i would do. but i am sure you already do this anyway. but i would certainly shower and smother him with love and affection gain his trust and as gabby says try and talk to him on a level he can understand about what is troubling him and maybe you can get him help on that same level. i wish you all the luck ever, he sounds like one heck of a special man!!! what a blessing : )
terrianne
Terri,
I think what you have said to kim is spot on (thats kinda what I meant but of course it didnt come out as eleqent as you!!!)
Kim, let us know how you and lil man is doin x x
Don't worry tink, I'll plant em all for ya!!! Oh wait a min, its a little to far for me to walk to yours, the ocean kinda gets in the way LOL wheres that plane gone??
I think what you have said to kim is spot on (thats kinda what I meant but of course it didnt come out as eleqent as you!!!)
Kim, let us know how you and lil man is doin x x
Don't worry tink, I'll plant em all for ya!!! Oh wait a min, its a little to far for me to walk to yours, the ocean kinda gets in the way LOL wheres that plane gone??
morning beaners....today will be a good day! already took the kids to the pool and not one of them suckers could swim...lmao
Hi MJ Gabbi and Kim
I know you naysayers will freak, but i am calling my Dr this morning for a months supply of Xanax, I have been having unreal panic attacks and have used up most of my K's, i am fine during our class, but having panic attacks on the way home, so i feel i need something stronger to ride this wait out. I could buy some off the street, but I want it to be prescribed so I don't flunk my urine test. Not much of a Xanax person, but I am really having major anxiety, especially yesterday, when there was a lot of sexual molestation issues discussed. Nobody worry bout me, I just want the month to help take the edge off the anxiety of waiting for a bed, etc. I pray the Dr will give them to me, cause if i test for them it'll screw up my chance for a bed, I hope you don't see this as a weakness, I just know that I need a little more tranquility during this difficult portion of my recovery. See 2 months ago i was on 4 mg of K, then the next the dr dropped me to 1 1/2, still think that was a little too much of a taper, then Dr gave me 2mg per day, fibro is acting up and i don't want to end up housebound from pain, plus the little extra will help me with these panic attacks...not sleeping too well either, i was going to try to buy some K off the street, but would much rather have the drs blessing. They check my K level and when they see it's been higher it may screw up my chance at a bed. I hope you will understand, i'm just not as strong as i think i am. a little more tranquility will ease the need to use...i don't want to have to spend an extra 10 days in detox for using.
I love y'all for the encouragement that you've given me.
living day to day, minute to minute.
love ya janet
Hi MJ Gabbi and Kim
I know you naysayers will freak, but i am calling my Dr this morning for a months supply of Xanax, I have been having unreal panic attacks and have used up most of my K's, i am fine during our class, but having panic attacks on the way home, so i feel i need something stronger to ride this wait out. I could buy some off the street, but I want it to be prescribed so I don't flunk my urine test. Not much of a Xanax person, but I am really having major anxiety, especially yesterday, when there was a lot of sexual molestation issues discussed. Nobody worry bout me, I just want the month to help take the edge off the anxiety of waiting for a bed, etc. I pray the Dr will give them to me, cause if i test for them it'll screw up my chance for a bed, I hope you don't see this as a weakness, I just know that I need a little more tranquility during this difficult portion of my recovery. See 2 months ago i was on 4 mg of K, then the next the dr dropped me to 1 1/2, still think that was a little too much of a taper, then Dr gave me 2mg per day, fibro is acting up and i don't want to end up housebound from pain, plus the little extra will help me with these panic attacks...not sleeping too well either, i was going to try to buy some K off the street, but would much rather have the drs blessing. They check my K level and when they see it's been higher it may screw up my chance at a bed. I hope you will understand, i'm just not as strong as i think i am. a little more tranquility will ease the need to use...i don't want to have to spend an extra 10 days in detox for using.
I love y'all for the encouragement that you've given me.
living day to day, minute to minute.
love ya janet
Morning Janet,
Now please don't take this the wrong way, i am saying this outta love x
BE VERY CAREFUL with Xanax, you don't want to end up with an addiction to bensos on top of everything, is there not an alternative to xanax? cos I know the hell of benso addiction so again PLEASE be very very careful, cos you are playing with fire x
I know what your saying tho' you need something to help with the anxiety ect, but xanax will make your anxiety worse in the long run x
So again BE VERY VERY CAREFUL X
How you feeling today?
love
Gabbs
Now please don't take this the wrong way, i am saying this outta love x
BE VERY CAREFUL with Xanax, you don't want to end up with an addiction to bensos on top of everything, is there not an alternative to xanax? cos I know the hell of benso addiction so again PLEASE be very very careful, cos you are playing with fire x
I know what your saying tho' you need something to help with the anxiety ect, but xanax will make your anxiety worse in the long run x
So again BE VERY VERY CAREFUL X
How you feeling today?
love
Gabbs
Dear Janet,Sweety there has got to be something better for you to take than that.Wont you please explore different optiond than jumping right into them.I know your working hard but I feel that to get them may add to your stress levels.Its just another damn drug that has the ability to take your soul.Ive heard of buspar I dont know much about that but its gotta be better than Xanzies?....Im only raggin on you because I care ok,If you get mad at me so be it but I dont want you to give in....mj
Ps after thinking my reply I feel the need to say this Ok.If this is something that you just need to do PLEASE be open with your husband & let him hold them.I know you say they arent your DOC or that you even like them but right now you are saw raw & new to whats happening it may be easy to feed into the addict within.Does that make sense????mj
Ps after thinking my reply I feel the need to say this Ok.If this is something that you just need to do PLEASE be open with your husband & let him hold them.I know you say they arent your DOC or that you even like them but right now you are saw raw & new to whats happening it may be easy to feed into the addict within.Does that make sense????mj
good morning,well today's food for thought will be about toilet paper,always make sure there is a roll hangin before you sit down and do your bussiness other wise you will have to use one of you wife's pretty flower designed towels that she admires so much which will defiantly cause problems when she see's bacon strips on it.
Goodmorning Fly guy thanks for the visual(I think)is the boat all fixed????mj
GOOD MORNING Vin, you fly guy!!!
How'd it go with getting the boat fixed?
How'd it go with getting the boat fixed?
molly i just droped it off yesterday,it will be about a week if he has to replace the drive shaft
mornig gabbi
Vinny I'M GABBI X
OPPS sorry didnt see mj's post DAAAHHHH, i thought you were gettin confused again, but I see its me thats confused lol
OPPS sorry didnt see mj's post DAAAHHHH, i thought you were gettin confused again, but I see its me thats confused lol
That sucks Vin Im sorry You still can get out on the water this weekend though right.??/
OK guys Ill be back in 5min or so my rug rat wants mom to blow dry her hair(howd I get so lucky.Ill be back
OK guys Ill be back in 5min or so my rug rat wants mom to blow dry her hair(howd I get so lucky.Ill be back
gabbi i'm vinny[lol]
Enjoy being a hair dresser for a lil Mj x x x
Bummer about the drive shaft Vin, how long till its fixed?
Bummer about the drive shaft Vin, how long till its fixed?
