I do tell him and I did again last night, we both know how strong we are, alone.....and how even stronger we are together, which is what we both need to remember....that together, we have taken on everything and things worked out, and it needs to be that way now.........
damn molly,
no wonder, i'm so sorry you were told that. you know just cause she is your mom. it doesnt make her right. she obviously has issues. what i had to come to terms with is that i wasnt the f-ed up one it was them. and i cant ever change that. but i can change myself i am a good person. that is thier opinions they have to live with. its between them and god. you are also a good person with an amazing heart. you can only change how you look at them. just accept the fact you cant change them. you can love them at a distance. you have your own great family who loves and accepts you. work on you and them to be happy and find your own peace. you dont need acceptance from your mom or sisters. i know how it hurts. but you have to remember they are the ones who arent right. once i cane to grips with all that instead of hating them i sorta felt sorry for them. after all it is thier loss. my sisters still try and be chummy with them. i wont even allow it anymore cause after a million times of getting sucked in i only ended up getting hurt again because they would use everything i did or said against me. they only wanted to see the worst in me and lived to see me fail. once i ridded them of my life i got rid of alot of baggage.
terrianne
no wonder, i'm so sorry you were told that. you know just cause she is your mom. it doesnt make her right. she obviously has issues. what i had to come to terms with is that i wasnt the f-ed up one it was them. and i cant ever change that. but i can change myself i am a good person. that is thier opinions they have to live with. its between them and god. you are also a good person with an amazing heart. you can only change how you look at them. just accept the fact you cant change them. you can love them at a distance. you have your own great family who loves and accepts you. work on you and them to be happy and find your own peace. you dont need acceptance from your mom or sisters. i know how it hurts. but you have to remember they are the ones who arent right. once i cane to grips with all that instead of hating them i sorta felt sorry for them. after all it is thier loss. my sisters still try and be chummy with them. i wont even allow it anymore cause after a million times of getting sucked in i only ended up getting hurt again because they would use everything i did or said against me. they only wanted to see the worst in me and lived to see me fail. once i ridded them of my life i got rid of alot of baggage.
terrianne
hey girls! Caught you! I was trying to read everything to catch up but was afraid you would leave before i finishing.......there is so much!
ME>>>>>i am glad you talked and came to a place where you can deal with your feelings with BA
Terri......wow........the window thing! how awful....glad you survived that!
MJ.......((((((hug)))))))) your sister must be some piece of work!
Gabbi......i feel the burn, too
Molly Boo is right.........
hey misty,
you are on the right track and how lucky both you and your husband are to have each other. sounds to me like you two are gonna make it just fine. you are both willing to put in the work it takes. that is so important and how rare these days. how long have you been married?
terrianne
you are on the right track and how lucky both you and your husband are to have each other. sounds to me like you two are gonna make it just fine. you are both willing to put in the work it takes. that is so important and how rare these days. how long have you been married?
terrianne
Hey Carol, hope you are well.....we seen lots of pictures on the news of what you guys are going through with the weather.......
You be safe......did you get the electric back yet?
You be safe......did you get the electric back yet?
hey Tmom!!!!!!!!!!
so glad you made it. hugs. how is everything fairing in your world? we been waiting for you : )
terrianne
so glad you made it. hugs. how is everything fairing in your world? we been waiting for you : )
terrianne
We have been married 20 years.........omg that is so long actually I have been with him now longer than I lived at home.....really weird
H*** no! usually it takes 3-5 days when this happens for them to fix it!
Molly, TA is right. Let them go. Poison in your life only hurts you.
What a day we had..........stuff blowing up.....our company vehicles were out driving in this ice and one wrecked, my daughter announced she is relocating w/bf to another city...........lol.....i don't know what this day holds, but i may just go back to bed
misty,
all i can say is i can truly see god at work in you and your family. take peace in that. i am amazed. you are doing everything right near as i can tell. like i said i have no phd but i do see a councelor and i did see her with my ex husband. but he wasnt willing or he was just too lost to "get it" and even at that. i understand that he did the best he could. it just wasnt working out for either of us. things are much happier this way for us. i did all the work in trying, he didnt. so the difference is you both are working at it and obviously love each other very much. you both sound like a great success to me already. and congrats on 20 years!!! thats almost unheard of anymore especially at our ages.
terrianne
all i can say is i can truly see god at work in you and your family. take peace in that. i am amazed. you are doing everything right near as i can tell. like i said i have no phd but i do see a councelor and i did see her with my ex husband. but he wasnt willing or he was just too lost to "get it" and even at that. i understand that he did the best he could. it just wasnt working out for either of us. things are much happier this way for us. i did all the work in trying, he didnt. so the difference is you both are working at it and obviously love each other very much. you both sound like a great success to me already. and congrats on 20 years!!! thats almost unheard of anymore especially at our ages.
terrianne
AWE TMOM,
pull out some cards, or a board game, go easy on yourself. your daughter relocating could be an exciting adventure! but also i bet it will be hard to let go as a mom. i wont know that yet for a few more years. sorry bout the car wreck thing. man your insurance company is gonna love you. but today is a good day. god is in control. so just be good to you today and here's a hug coming your way.
terrianne
pull out some cards, or a board game, go easy on yourself. your daughter relocating could be an exciting adventure! but also i bet it will be hard to let go as a mom. i wont know that yet for a few more years. sorry bout the car wreck thing. man your insurance company is gonna love you. but today is a good day. god is in control. so just be good to you today and here's a hug coming your way.
terrianne
You ain't kidding about the 20 years, no one thought we would get this far because we were so young when we got married, I was 18......and we only dated like 6 months.....but we each knew right away that something between us was different and followed our hearts!
Carol, going back to bed sounds good to me......
Misty...that is great! 20 years and 4 kids.....a lot of history and memories. you are both lucky to have each other. I know you are going to win this battle, together.
Molly, terrianne, is soooo right, listen to her babe.
Tmom, i did do stomach crunches for you-glad you can feel the burn you should do. Oh and good mornin' our mornin posse will be complete once redd drops in.
Terrianne & Tina you's are just soooooooooo great!!! Infact y'all rock (((hugs))) to y'all
xxx
Tmom, i did do stomach crunches for you-glad you can feel the burn you should do. Oh and good mornin' our mornin posse will be complete once redd drops in.
Terrianne & Tina you's are just soooooooooo great!!! Infact y'all rock (((hugs))) to y'all
xxx
misty what a great story!! you sound like a romance novel heheh. i bet you could write a book. i'm so glad your here with us. how cool to know that such things still exhist in life. your story gives me alot of hope that the real deal is out there : )
terrianne
terrianne
MOLLY,
get back here big sis, are you ok? talk to us. if ya want you can email me naturesprincess@yahoo.com
terrianne
get back here big sis, are you ok? talk to us. if ya want you can email me naturesprincess@yahoo.com
terrianne
here here Boo, i totally agree. Tina gives me hope that there are people who are made for each other-i've not found mine yet tho' infact i've given up lookin' i need to sort myself out before i can be with anyone.
Misty......yes, great story....love wins out!
I have to share mine.......we have been best friends since i was 12 and he 14. We didn't start dating until i was 19......but the rest was history. we have been married 26 years......actually, spilt up once, and got remarried......the love of my life. I know how you feel about yours Misty.....couldn't live without him!
