my b/f has just phoned me an said "do you want to see me again?" so i said no then he said ok remember i'll always love you. i asked where he was but he just put the phone down i try d to ring back but the line was dead now im extremly worried i cant get hold of him what should i do ? do you think he means he is gonna take his life please help xxx
Hey emz,
Whoa, you must be worried sick......honestly I'd say no that don't mean that.
Then again one never knows, but I used to do that......scare people cause my old ways ain't working anymore.
What's been going on....I mean I know the situation....anything else happening.....sorry if I'm no comfort........but don't freak out just now...easier said than done I know.....that was the gist of the conversation?
Whoa, you must be worried sick......honestly I'd say no that don't mean that.
Then again one never knows, but I used to do that......scare people cause my old ways ain't working anymore.
What's been going on....I mean I know the situation....anything else happening.....sorry if I'm no comfort........but don't freak out just now...easier said than done I know.....that was the gist of the conversation?
Try not to worry...ha, that's impossible I know...perhaps he's just leaving your life, letting you get on with your life? Either way, no decision he makes is your fault, and you cannot influence his decisions, certainly not on something that huge.
Is there anyone else you can contact who knows him who might be able to tell you if he's ok?
Look after you and focus on your future. He will look after him.
Hoping everything turns out well for you x x
Is there anyone else you can contact who knows him who might be able to tell you if he's ok?
Look after you and focus on your future. He will look after him.
Hoping everything turns out well for you x x
emz, Believer knows.....she's been through it all.
O.K. I see now it's two days........since ya had him leave and stop wrecking havoc on your family....I saw too his mum lives close by.
Emz, can ya call his family.........obviously they know of his habit......get a support all together.........emz, a bottom........he needs to reach it and if this is the first ya stuck to your guns.........he's gonna try something new.....a new way to scare ya............in my heart from experience.........no, he's just working a new angel and torturing you.......and if so, emz, I mean honestly it's all on him..........until he makes that move.........to want to get clean and stay clean.
If it makes ya feel any better at all......once people got sick of my crap......that was my next ploy........they fell for it and allllllll over again it starts....think about it, emz........"Do you want to see me again?".........what the hecks that mean?
How about "emz, I'm at my lowest and I'm gonna get help I will see you and the kids newly clean".........right? I'm sorry your life is like a mayhem circus....I say that not to be mean.........I was the ringleader in the circus I caused.
O.K. I see now it's two days........since ya had him leave and stop wrecking havoc on your family....I saw too his mum lives close by.
Emz, can ya call his family.........obviously they know of his habit......get a support all together.........emz, a bottom........he needs to reach it and if this is the first ya stuck to your guns.........he's gonna try something new.....a new way to scare ya............in my heart from experience.........no, he's just working a new angel and torturing you.......and if so, emz, I mean honestly it's all on him..........until he makes that move.........to want to get clean and stay clean.
If it makes ya feel any better at all......once people got sick of my crap......that was my next ploy........they fell for it and allllllll over again it starts....think about it, emz........"Do you want to see me again?".........what the hecks that mean?
How about "emz, I'm at my lowest and I'm gonna get help I will see you and the kids newly clean".........right? I'm sorry your life is like a mayhem circus....I say that not to be mean.........I was the ringleader in the circus I caused.
P.S. emz a seven year old does know............Daddy is high again.
Mine knew a tad older.........but they know.
Mine knew a tad older.........but they know.
Oh Emz, take care of your little ones, and take care of you. Kids are amazingly resilient, they can cope with anything as long as they know they are loved. You concentrate on getting your life sorted for you and for them, the rent situation, etc. And he can focus on himself. Are you on good terms with his family? I hope you can find (in your head or your heart!) right solution for you and yours, and have the strength to stick to what you believe is right for you.
Keep us informed, thinking of you, Maddy x x
Keep us informed, thinking of you, Maddy x x
thanks guy's im soooooo happy that ive got ppl like you to turn too in a crisis , well he came back he said he never said any off that s*** on the phone ( why would i lie) but he did come back smacked up so im extremly dissapointed but not atall shocked he said he wanted us to talk so i agreed we can only if the truth is goinng to come out an no bulls*** we will soon see , anyway ill keep you posted xxxxx
Hey Emz,
I understand why you are worrying, as I would be the same but one thing I ave learnt is that Kevin plays mind games with me wanting me to believe that he has done something stupid only for me to ask him to come back etc. Its bribing ya hunny.
I really dont think he would of done anything stupid but if he has you cant take responsibility for this because you ave moved on with your life and it was his choice not to move on or spend a happy life with yourself.
Take care hunny xxx Thinking of ya & keep us posted xxx
I understand why you are worrying, as I would be the same but one thing I ave learnt is that Kevin plays mind games with me wanting me to believe that he has done something stupid only for me to ask him to come back etc. Its bribing ya hunny.
I really dont think he would of done anything stupid but if he has you cant take responsibility for this because you ave moved on with your life and it was his choice not to move on or spend a happy life with yourself.
Take care hunny xxx Thinking of ya & keep us posted xxx
Good post Bunny Rocker.
Yeah that's how we do.........emz, ya know what hits ya right in the face and everywhere else.........when the person you play finally had it and goes.......it's your choice and I ain't living like this anymore..........go do whatever.
Shocks ya....shocked me......stupified I was........then I tortured him......calling and hanging up........threatening all kinds of wacky stuff.
Hope your talk went well........he was high.........talking goes great when you're high..........it's all good..........no yelling and ya get promises.....yep.
Yeah that's how we do.........emz, ya know what hits ya right in the face and everywhere else.........when the person you play finally had it and goes.......it's your choice and I ain't living like this anymore..........go do whatever.
Shocks ya....shocked me......stupified I was........then I tortured him......calling and hanging up........threatening all kinds of wacky stuff.
Hope your talk went well........he was high.........talking goes great when you're high..........it's all good..........no yelling and ya get promises.....yep.
bryn , i dont know you , i've read a lot of your post's including other's aswell as my own and the impression i get is that your 1 good f***in person xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
