Your favorite show is t.v but I haven't seen the naughty chair yet tonight. Shantel
Shantel
lol thanks for the heads up..ill go watch..lol
i just answered your post on the houdini thread ( poof its gone)
so it didnt make it on..
Thanks for asking about hubby, things are pretty good..could be better but could also be much worse...so have to count our blessings...
Are your grandbabies gone? If so your arms must feel awful empty..
Thanks again for thinking of me honey..
Hugs
Ali
lol thanks for the heads up..ill go watch..lol
i just answered your post on the houdini thread ( poof its gone)
so it didnt make it on..
Thanks for asking about hubby, things are pretty good..could be better but could also be much worse...so have to count our blessings...
Are your grandbabies gone? If so your arms must feel awful empty..
Thanks again for thinking of me honey..
Hugs
Ali
Ali, What's going on with Herb? Is everything o.k. We just took the grandbabies home and as soon as we dropped them off to my daughter she asked if we would take again for a few nights in a couple of weeks. I have no problem with that but I also don't want to be to available to her so she can run a muck. She needs to get her life in order and I don't want to enable her. It is kinda like a no win situation. I'm dammed if I do and I'm dammed if I don't. Shantel
Shantel
Your an amazing person.
I would think..it would be all too easy to just jump at the chance for you and PaPa to immediately say Yes of course we will take them, and just enjoy the time you get to spend with them....cus its obvious you love them and enjoy being with them...
Its very unselfish of you to think past your own enjoyment at spending time with them and think of how it may be affecting your daughters responsibilities..
I suppose it depends on how often your daughter does go out or get up to her "shenanigans" lol and if she does it anyway and leave the children with others, then they are better of left with you...
You dont of course want to enable her to be a party girl and live down the responsibility of being a stay home Mom...
Does she work? have a hubby? Did she get pregnant early and is just trying to regain some of her lost youth?
all things to take into account i suppose, no one knows her like you , and no one will have her AND the babies best interest at heart like you and hubby...Im sure you ll make all the right decisions...
I cant talk about whats troubling me with hubby right now honey...not sure i can...but thanks for asking..i have to think it through a bit..
hugs
Ali
Your an amazing person.
I would think..it would be all too easy to just jump at the chance for you and PaPa to immediately say Yes of course we will take them, and just enjoy the time you get to spend with them....cus its obvious you love them and enjoy being with them...
Its very unselfish of you to think past your own enjoyment at spending time with them and think of how it may be affecting your daughters responsibilities..
I suppose it depends on how often your daughter does go out or get up to her "shenanigans" lol and if she does it anyway and leave the children with others, then they are better of left with you...
You dont of course want to enable her to be a party girl and live down the responsibility of being a stay home Mom...
Does she work? have a hubby? Did she get pregnant early and is just trying to regain some of her lost youth?
all things to take into account i suppose, no one knows her like you , and no one will have her AND the babies best interest at heart like you and hubby...Im sure you ll make all the right decisions...
I cant talk about whats troubling me with hubby right now honey...not sure i can...but thanks for asking..i have to think it through a bit..
hugs
Ali
Shantell- I can relate to the amuck stuff. My ex (who has physical custody) evidently has been running amuck. First, I guess my oldest daughter was recruited to watch the little ones about a month ago and the ex stayed out all night. Then, yesterday, my 6 year old said she was with the babysitter Friday night "and Mommy didn't come home all night". I don't have a problem with her being out. I have a problem with her being out and not giving me the opportunity to have the kids.
