Hi guys !.It seems according to hubby I have been doing just a "little"" to much shopping these last couple of weeks.I always used to say that I didn't like to shop but I guess what it was I never had any money to shop before because I used to spend it on booze. Anyway some days I have went shopping with friends and bought some things for ME .( I know selfisiness). But guys I was really enjoying myself and to me I was celebrating because don't I derserve it?? It's not money wasted on booze! Anyway he had just said to me in quite a (calm manner) that for the last two couple of weeks it seems I am buying quite a bit of stuff. That was all I needed ! He had rained on my parade. DAM IT. so then I says to him I can't do anything and he ruins my good days and how I rather just live alone and that I should just go back to drinking. and its when I am angry or upset that I really want to drink then. So of course I wanted a drink and blamed him for the cause. Did any of you do stuff like that? I mean over shop , over spend or over eat? it seems I'm excessive with whatever I go at or that is what I'm been told. anyway just wanted to get that of my chest and thanks again..God Bless and be safe
Watch for transferrence, that's all I'd say. Focus on your sobriety.... By the way: There's no problem that alcohol can't make worse, and a problem shared is a problem cut in half...
