In my heart of hearts I hope you do not take this the wrong way but you are the one who reached out. Support is not always going to come with a pretty pink bow on it. Granted, its not what you say, its how you say it but all people are trying to do is help you. Recovery takes serious work and some of the"finger pointing" is folks trying to get you to face up to your reality. Whats going to happen when somebody on this post does not respond in the way you like? I along with alot of others welcomed you back. All the whole of us want you to see is that with all you have going on, you need to focus ALL your attention to living a quality life. All the best to you and your family!
Darin
good point darin,
julie i never posted to you but have followed your story and if all these great people didnt care and love about you they wouldnt be sharing with you one way or the other. no one is being mean, they love you and your family that they have came to know. i saw your pics. you all are gorgeous but more importantly your spirits are even more gorgeous. please give yourself a chance and let your family love you the way you deserve. they wanna love you so bad. i know you know that.we all deserve to be love. i only wished i had a mom like yours. as i am sure many of us do.your story touches us all. make yourself proud girl. you are worthy.
terrianne
julie i never posted to you but have followed your story and if all these great people didnt care and love about you they wouldnt be sharing with you one way or the other. no one is being mean, they love you and your family that they have came to know. i saw your pics. you all are gorgeous but more importantly your spirits are even more gorgeous. please give yourself a chance and let your family love you the way you deserve. they wanna love you so bad. i know you know that.we all deserve to be love. i only wished i had a mom like yours. as i am sure many of us do.your story touches us all. make yourself proud girl. you are worthy.
terrianne
Thank you both, yeah, sometimes when we know someone is right on our "sore spot" and they try to heal it, it hurts, ya know, I mean I really thought I was waslking the walk, now maybe I am just full of s***, huh? Well, I hit my 1st meeting yesterday, and I am goint to one tommor too, today is my baby cousins party, I will take my lap top with me.....love julie
Julie your not full of sh*t.
You have been so honest about everything you have done.
That speaks volumes for you as a person.
You have been so honest about everything you have done.
That speaks volumes for you as a person.
Hey Julie,
"Good on you" for taking in a meeting. You're taking very positive steps and accepting everyone's remarks and advice with maturity. That is tremendous growth. You have exactly what it takes to live a different life then you (we) have been and it's been a pleasure watching you. Everyone loves you here and will do everything we can to support the steps you take. Have a great weekend.
Beck
"Good on you" for taking in a meeting. You're taking very positive steps and accepting everyone's remarks and advice with maturity. That is tremendous growth. You have exactly what it takes to live a different life then you (we) have been and it's been a pleasure watching you. Everyone loves you here and will do everything we can to support the steps you take. Have a great weekend.
Beck
julie
im sorry, i havent really been following your posts so i dont know whats up. But i do know you went to a meeting and picked up a white chip and plan on going tomorrow so i feel you are on the right track. Never give up. Good luck!! :)
im sorry, i havent really been following your posts so i dont know whats up. But i do know you went to a meeting and picked up a white chip and plan on going tomorrow so i feel you are on the right track. Never give up. Good luck!! :)
Your not full of s#@!, you are full of addictive behaviors that you have to release if you are to have any chance at recovery. Start to build a solid support network in addition to this. At this early in the game you need all the help you can get. Keep it simple Julie and take your time. All the best to you!
Darin
Darin
