well things are not good here, im looking into somre rehabe centers, i feel like i can,t do this enymoer, most off our programs are 3to 4weeks long, i don,t want to go back to were i went throu 1year ago, i feel like i need to get away, there is a place in ont, that is only onehour away, its only 3 weeks but thats ok, i can,t live like this enymoer, its hurting everyone, myson well, be with out a home come monday, andmy,,hubby is going to leave me,soon, his had enuff, and i don,t blame him, he seems to think i like being like,this, omg, is he roung, i don,t now what it is with me, that i cn,t stay sober, for good, ive had thoes good felings, i guess my bigest fear is he won,t let me come home, after the program,thats what happen the last time and there was a lot off, taken thing s, away from me, so it would be nice to hear, thanks karen.
Karen- You have to quit worrying about everbody else.
You can't take of yourself.We can't always wait until the best opportunity or the right Rehab or after vacation,or when the kids are grown,or when the weather gets better.....on and on and on.
The time is now. ........and I would run.
Yes, your husband might leave you.It sounds like he is anyway so why not be clean when it happens.You will have your wits about you to take care of all the legal problems that will ensue.
I know you think I'm a harda** but I would love to see you get clean.You have been coming on this BB for too long.
The longer you wait,the more life will pass you by.
Do this for yourself and no one else.
You can't take of yourself.We can't always wait until the best opportunity or the right Rehab or after vacation,or when the kids are grown,or when the weather gets better.....on and on and on.
The time is now. ........and I would run.
Yes, your husband might leave you.It sounds like he is anyway so why not be clean when it happens.You will have your wits about you to take care of all the legal problems that will ensue.
I know you think I'm a harda** but I would love to see you get clean.You have been coming on this BB for too long.
The longer you wait,the more life will pass you by.
Do this for yourself and no one else.
You surrender completely!
You are no good to anyone. You need to take care of your own broken self before you can even begin to take care of anyone or anything.
There is no shame in surrendering....shame comes when you know you have a problem and are unwilling to face it so your life can improve.
You need to get clean but you have to want it more than anything you have ever wanted.
Wishing you the best...no go do it!
You are no good to anyone. You need to take care of your own broken self before you can even begin to take care of anyone or anything.
There is no shame in surrendering....shame comes when you know you have a problem and are unwilling to face it so your life can improve.
You need to get clean but you have to want it more than anything you have ever wanted.
Wishing you the best...no go do it!
Karen,
I'm not sure if I read your post correctly. Did you say your son will be without a home on Monday? How old is he? If he is a child will your husband be looking after him while you are in rehab? I agree with what the others say. Right now you have to take care of yourself because if you don't then you can't take care of anyone else. It probably seems so scarey now but once things get going you'll start to feel so much better. I know it sounds cliche but all you can do is take it one day at a time and do everything you need to do to get yourself better. Best wishes.
Shelly
I'm not sure if I read your post correctly. Did you say your son will be without a home on Monday? How old is he? If he is a child will your husband be looking after him while you are in rehab? I agree with what the others say. Right now you have to take care of yourself because if you don't then you can't take care of anyone else. It probably seems so scarey now but once things get going you'll start to feel so much better. I know it sounds cliche but all you can do is take it one day at a time and do everything you need to do to get yourself better. Best wishes.
Shelly
