I am my 30 year old daughters enabler and can't seem to stop. I'm killing myself trying to figure out what to do or how to help her and most of all how to stop letting her come home high. All along while she is killing herself with spice and liquor. She will do really good for months at a time, then next thing I know I don't see or hear from her until a week later. She's been in and out of rehabs, which obviously haven't seem to help. She has just recently lost custody of her two children. Thank GOD that my sister has a wonderful, stable homelife , so DHS put the children under her care for now. When she comes home high, it's like a hugh slap in my face. And I just don't know what to do anymore. I have made her leave the house before, but she always calls crying to come home and I let her. She honestly has absolutely no where to go. And in my mind if she's here, I can at least keep an eye on her. My daughter has been in ICU on life support twice due to spice and liquor. That was not a good sight. I'm so scared and so worried about her, but yet I'm so tired. I'm tired of trying to figure out how to save my daughters life.
Al-Anon and Nar-Anon will help you get your life back if you let them.
All the best.
Bob R
All the best.
Bob R
