Hello,
Just wanted to give an update on my situation. Incase anyone doesn't know my son's father has been running from the police for a few weeks after he left a court ordered rehab. He has been getting high nonstop. He was harassing me at work and I had to call the police. Well two days ago he called my cell phone without blocking out the phone number he was at. I went online and did a reverse look up to the number he called from. I got the address and called the detective and told him where to find him. He said he would pick him up now but didn't want to put me in jeopardy. Well when C (my son's father) called me he was asking for a ride cuz he was arguing with whoever he was with and wanted to get out before the cops came. I told him to go ahead and do it just don't tell him how they found out. An hour later I get the call that they picked him up.
I cried. Called a friend and she told me I was only helping him and it was going to happen sooner or later. I just made it sooner. He needed to go. He sounded terrible and told me that he had been up for 5 days and that he was about to do it again and that hates everyone and everything. Guess he was coming down. About a half hour later he calls me from the police station. Told me he turned himself in!! Isn't that funny...at least he doesn't know it was me. I asked him why he sounded so happy and he said because it's over now. He should be getting about 3 or 4 years. He told me to take care of myself and our son and that he loves us. And he'll write me and keep in touch. Well that was a relief and now it's my chance to walk away. I will not be writing to him and I have since changed my number so that means no contact. RELIEF is all I can say. I've been eating like crazy. Something I don't seem to do when he's around. Don't get me wrong. I love him dearly and will miss the person he used to be. My son and I need to heal. I have not told my son yet. I will at some point. I just hate to keep telling him that daddy's in jail again. But he's seven and he knows what's going on even though I try to keep him away from it all.
I will still come here to see how everyone is doing. Hope you are all well.
LenaL
Hi LenaL
I'm glad the nightmare is over for you and that you are safe. This may be the best thing for him anyway.
This will; however, be the best thing for you and for your son. Now you will be able to heal in peace.
Keep us updated on how you are!
Take care of yourself and your son,
Mickey
I'm glad the nightmare is over for you and that you are safe. This may be the best thing for him anyway.
This will; however, be the best thing for you and for your son. Now you will be able to heal in peace.
Keep us updated on how you are!
Take care of yourself and your son,
Mickey
Hi!!!!
That was a very loving act - YOU JUST SAVED HIS LIFE - he is exactly where his meant to be.
Take care of YOU and your SON>
That was a very loving act - YOU JUST SAVED HIS LIFE - he is exactly where his meant to be.
Take care of YOU and your SON>