I Finally Did It, Slapped The Neighbor In The Head

Pain Pills
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Her husban ended up coming over and asked what has been going on and i told him i didnt want to get involved with his marrage like that but if he wanted to know i would tell him, I figured at that point it had gone far enough. He ended up going threw her drawrs and found a bag of weed and he also foud her cocain stash in the babys closet under the diapers!! Can you believe it? I had no idea that she was like that. Im not rich by any means but we do live in a nice community and lets put it this way, its not DETROIT if you know what i mean.
He came over an said he was sorry for everything and that he wanted to get his wife help. He new that she was taking speed for alittle bit to keep up with the daily life she led but he thought that all the drugs were done with now. The drugs in his sons room, well, slapped him in the face if you will.
Should i appoligize to her or should i run and move to California to keep away from her when she gets out(ha, ha, ha)
Christina
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LMAO, that was great. My EXACT first thought too, lol. And a continued thought every time I have a coughing jag that leaves me wheezing and out of breath. It's so good to know somebody else is sharing those thoughts, even though I really hate it that you're sick. And if I were you, I'd be looking too. lol. Sometimes I think we must have guardian angels that look out for us and keep drugs away from us at the times when we're weak.
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I think it's always a good idea to make sure your side of the street is clean. Yes, you do owe her an amends for slapping her across the face. Of course she owes you one but you can't be concerned with what she does. You can only be responsible for you and your actions. Don't have any expectations because the jig is up and she is gonna be pissed that her covers are pulled and that her sneaking around drug addiction is now out in the open.

Rach
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You sound pretty tough there, Christina. I think it might be your neighbor who needs to move, lol. Gotta hand it to you, this has been one exciting night in your neighborhood. Love, Kat
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Katt:

I still always think about being admitted to the hospital and getting a morphine drip. This ia cough for God's sake nothing that would warrant a morphine drip. Sick, sick thinking. And yes, I think it does change after time. I know when I was clean before I never even entertained the thought of drugs or random surgeries!
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Excellent advice Rachel! In the long run Christina you may have done your neighbor a big favor. I doubt she'll look at it that way right now though. Boy, us three really made a long thread didn't we? lol Kat
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Wow girls, I missed my favorite show, "The Apprentice" for this exciting play by play drama.
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It may ave been exiting to some but it kind of scared the crap out of me. Im a very quiet person and no, im not tough by no means, my fiancee couldnt beleive it. He even asked me if i had taken anything today that would have made me get that angry. The only thing i told him was that she messed with my family and my feelings and that hurt.

I feel great, but after telling the story, i feel like crying. Thats a lie, the tear just fell on the keyboard. I guess i am crying. I have no control over emotion anymore. This sucks, when do we snap out of it. Dont tell me in time because im fighting with the time thing right now and its not working!!! Does anyone think im crazy for doing this to her?? I kind of feel like the devil. I feel like she deserved to get the smack down(my kids call it that) but i didnt want to interfire with the womans marrige. Besides that, i have a headache that is killing me right now. The computer screen makes it worse, but im addicted to all of you for some strange reason. Why is that??


Christina
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Want me to telll you what happened on the show tonight. It was a good one and remember, it gets played on t.v. here alot sooner than in your part of town??


Christina
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First, your emotions are running high right now. That was a pretty major ordeal to endure. Try to breathe and relax. Everything happens for a reason. I understand what you mean about being quiet. I'm pretty even-kealed and hate confrontation so I would have a hard time with this. What's done is done. Regarding the board, it's an emotional outlet for you. It's a good place to let your hair down and be honest. It's the first step in your recovery process.

Rach
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We get addicted to everything Christina, it's just the nature of the beast. You've been through alot tonight, no wonder it's hitting you now. I truly enjoyed your story, but still sorry that you had to go through the drama. I hope tommorrow is a calm and easy day for you. Love, Kat
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Who got fired? Maria?
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I agree with Kat, I hope you have a peaceful and serene day tomorrow Christina.

Love,

Rachel
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Rachel and Christina, it's been fun. I'm off to bed now. I enjoyed hanging out with you guys tonight. Take care, much love, Kat
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Oh ya,, and so did the blond guy,i cant remember his name but he was the project manager. It was a good one though. Can you beleave it, the TRUMP fires 2 people in board room. He felt that maria had overstepped her boundarys and took full control when she shouldnt have. And he felt that the blond guy didnt do enough to keep her in her place as a leader. The should be another eppisode of the same thing showing in a couple of days, they usually replay the same show on sat. nights on another station in my T.v. area...
Thanks for getting my mind off the subject though. I needed to get it out, i did, and now im gonna cry about it for alittle bit and then ill be o.k.
I have lived a crappy life, as us all im sure but it has to get better soon. My fiancee loves me but hes not used to this type of thing.
Can i talk about that for a min. to you???
Christina
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im going to bed in a fwe min. and i will get back on here tomorow morning. Please look for me, or even write to me.
Your FRIEND
Christina
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Go to detox center. You need it friend...
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I saw that last night too..Trump fires two!!!.. But the both deserved it...a wakeup call to us all!
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Christina..I've never posted to you before but really enjoyed reading the story on this thread...Kat and Rachel are great support.

I just had one thought....

You have a perfect opportunity here to help someone and help yourself. Your neighbor needs a friend and a friend in recovery is a lot easier than going it alone.

Do you think you could bury the hatchet and help eachother? You are in the same boat after all... you are no better than she and she is no better than you.

Cowgirl


Kiwi.....what ya doing man? Quit stirring the s***. How are you? The last time I saw you post you had 30 days.... are you feeling ok? Back to work? Back to life? Check in with your own inventory. :o)

Cowgirl
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yeeeehaaaa cowgirl..

good morning cowgirl... I love you cowgirl.. Are you always reading my mind?... I sure hope not....lol

would like to chat with you soon.... hint hint.... anyway hope things are good with you and yours...

I agree 150% with your post... once the initial sting wears off the one in jail will need all the help she can get and as far as the husband is concerned may the friend could point him in the right direction for some education and counseling.... just me too cents....

God Bless..
teresa