I'm dating a heroin addict, weve been dating for 9 months and I'm drained. I love him to pieces, I want to be with him forever, i want to be with who he was... hes been using drugs for quite awhile, since before we were dating but when we started seeing eachother he was clean. just weed, beer and cigarettes. then he did a little bit of mdma, and i told him its okay if its just a soecial occasion but all the time is kinda f*cked, and he understood that. sooner he started taking pain killers, like dillys, valiums, oxys, and then soin enough he tried heroin and then said hed never do it again and that was in may. he kept his word and then in late september he started using it pretty hard, now he uses everyday, and he says he stoppig all the time and nevr does... tomorrow hes going to detox because he needs to or else he'll get arrested so its not his choice... i dont know if hell be successful, i just hope he will be... but if he stops i want to support him and make him feel happy and comfortable . i told him i would stay with him no matter what even if he relapses, ill still support him and be his girl. because i want to be with him, i love him so f*cking much and when hes not on this sh*t hes an angel. but i dont feel like first priority, i dont feel like im being treated properly and im lost, ive completely lost myself and it used to be so clear to me. and im getting tired and i honestly dont jnow if id be able to stay with him through relapses...
Dear Tea, You must move on this is not a healthy relationship. ..You are only setting yourself up for a miserable roller coaster ride.Why are you willing to settle for this ? I am the mother of an addict I have seen what this drug will do not only to him,but the damage it has done to his family and to his ex fianc. ...it's miserable...run like hell......
My daughter fell "in love" with a heroin addict and he quickly used up all her money while getting her hooked. In a moment of clarity, she told me that she felt like he wanted to get her wanting it as much as he did so that she'd have skin in the game, so to speak. He's done terrible things to her because he loves heroin WAAAAY more than whatever he feels for her, if anything.
Get out while you can! Run, don't walk!
Get out while you can! Run, don't walk!
