hi to all my computer, crached so im starting all over again, i was suppost to have my back suerger yesterday, and was all ready when they called at 5,00 to till me the doct, had a emergense, so now its the 14, off this month, ive been going throu so mush , not just with my oun addiction but trying to make sence out off what my son is doing to his life, he was never a drinker untel a few months ago, now he gets drunk everday, can not see the kids, has almost lost his job, and his aprtment, on top off that he is on meth, and benzoes, its been crazy, i can,t talk to him he just throus my misstakes in my face, does enyone now how i can handel this, it becomes a opsetion with me, its hard to let go, and let god. thanks karen
Karen, It's called tough love. I had to do it with my 21 year old daughter It's not easy but when nothing else we were doing to try and help her was working we had no choice. I had to learn to stop blaming myself for the mistakes she was making in her life and just let go. I know one day she will find her way but I will not enable her to live her life they way she is living it now. Shantel
