Kiwirain If You Please

Don't want to ruffle anyone's feathers but if you take a look back the moderators lock almost all of the KIWI post to were you can't reply no more I may not agree with what he is saying all the time but sometimes he is telling it straight and he has not alot of compassion but he knows this.That makes him who he is hell people probably think I am so sweet and nice and supportive but thats how I like to express myself.But my point is here that this 28 year old man has been through alot (that I have read about on here) and I hardly ever see any of us asking him whats your story,how are you today,we never know cause we never get a chance to cause we are so stuck on letting him know what we don't like about him and I felt some of the things that he has said weren't right and even posted to him about and had a post locked after everyone read it and added to it...I don't think he is sick nor a little boy and I think its sad that we have to lower are selves to calling names..Heck I am 28 and I would not like to be called a little girl or anything else for that matter.To KIWI I hope your races went well that your watching I am watching the Moto GP tonight so I hope you have a great rest of the evening. I hope the best in what ever comes your way...........Jessica
New beginning,

Here I am trying to be supportive, positive, do my growing in public to keep myself accountable to you guys, my new family. And yet there are THREE threads going for Kiwi and hardly anyone writes to me! I'm starting to get my feelings hurt...lmao lmao lmao And I've done my level best to get the Mods to lock one of MY silly threads.

I hope you see the point I'm trying to make. Clumsily.

Love, Gina

vinny, get in here. Don't make me do your work for you. I don't do it a quarter as well as you do.

I have heard alot of people ask questions about kiwis problems. She just doesnt want to tell her story. I think we have all tried. None of us get on here to just bash anyone. I would love to get to know her but she makes it hard so I will just leave her alone..Unless like you said above if she really wants to talk sincere. Love you all, Christy
christy,

She will never talk sincere because she is nothing but an internet troll !!!
Read Bob's post titled "Internet Trolls" - you will see it matches exactly !!!

Hope your weekend was good....


Yes soccermom I do get it,I just wished everyone else did.........Hey wmg sorry but she is a he KIWI is a man..........But anywho just trying to get a point across to others.I my self have got on here and said that a**hole and respond to the first post then after he starts defining his reason it makes it a little clearer.ITS AMAZING THIS IS PROBABLY THE ONLY POST THAT IS ADDRESSED TO KIWI THAT WANT BE CLOSED.LMAO LOLOLOLOL PLOP!!!!!!!!!DID YA LIKE THAT ONE SOCCERMOM LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Sorry new beginning, you lost me.

Cheers,
Gina
I am the one that kept asking about what lmao means the other day........the dumb blonde thing...........ya there ................Jessica
Hey- my thoughts on Kiwi is this: Kiwi is Kiwi and obviously is not going to chang for anyone - not that he has to - everyone has there own opinion, whether is be compassionate, supportive or whatever. I think it would be alot easier that if you see a post by Kiwi and you know that you dont see eye to eye, then just pass it by.

Back to recovery - thats what were here for. No offense to ANYONE please - I just hate to see so much time wasted on how someone else wants to act - it a free country. We all have more important things to discuss, JMHO.

Love to all,
Marie
Just my 2cents:

This is just where Kiwi is at in his recovery. With abstinence the only thing that changes is that the addict is not talking mind altering drugs. When working a program of recovery while abstaining from drugs.....addicts find that everything changes. I hope that he seeks this kind of program so that we can all follow the remarkable changes that are sure to come.

BTW Kiwi this is not an attack on you. I applaud honesty and have always been a firm believer in telling it like it is. But I do believe that you need to tone it down and be more supportive especially of the new people who come here looking for support. They are often desperate and may be reaching out for the first time to anyone to tell their story, the last thing they need is to get kicked and beaten down again. Also this just might be their last resort. I dislike it too when you get attacked and go on the defensive so harshly.........I've been there and done that. It solves nothing. Trust me, If I can change anyone can.

Sincerely,
Jessica,

You changed your avatar. I'm having many blonde moments today. Gotcha. Finally.

ROFLMFAO

You're too funny. And you learn fast.

Love,
Gina
So, I'm gone all weekend and come back to find that Kiwi's been at it again...or you'll been at Kiwi again.. lol

Kiwi... what Sharon said. You know how much I support you. I also am a firm beleiver in no BS but new people need a little more compassion. Give em a break. We gave you one when you first showed up. You gave me one.

Ok, now, what Marie said.

Hi Gina and Paula...

xxx
Cowgirl
Heya Jessica,

Yea I hate to break it to you, Im a guy. I don't have a vagina...But I do have pecs but not breasts.

I actually keep an eye on MotoGP too. But Rossi has won 5 out of the first 6 races. So he's already running away with the championship. It used to be that way with F1 too with Michael Schumacher but in 2005 with the new rules its ALOT more entertaining!

Have a super day!

Kiwi (guy)
lol.... careful, Kiwi, people are starting to like you.
Cowgirl,

Easy there yummy mommy. I wouldnt say that. Not all my posts today were blowing sunshine up people butt. :)

If people truely want help, sit and listen, understand what I say, then tend to reply in a good way and then I just help more.

But if people turn around and attack right off the bat, then thats another story. Yes I know I can be a bit rough around the edges. Im working on it!
If you blew sunshine, I would think someone had hijacked your name.

How are you feeling today?

xxx
cg
Would everyone stop talking about blowing Sunshine...it's making me blush...lol
Hey KIWI,Sorry I know that your a man it was someone else that thought that you was a she instead of a he but anywho just thought I would atleast make a post that may not get closed again not trying to make a major subject of it at all but I think that some people including myself at times would take defense before they would see the full reasoning behind the way you approach different matters on here....So Hope your having a super day too..........Jessica
Jess,

Thanks girl. I appreciate your posts.

Have a AMAZING day!

Kiwi
SunshineSoon..LMAO..that was funny and after I wrote it, I thought, someone's going to take that wrong!

xxx
cg