John is the kind of guy you love to hate. He is
always in a good mood and
always has something positive to say. When someone
would ask him how he was
doing, he would reply, "If I were any better, I
would be twins!"
He was a natural motivator.
If an employee was having a bad day, John was
there
telling the employee how
to look on the positive side of the situation.
Seeing this style really made me curious, so one
day
I went up and asked him,
"I don't get it!
You can't be a positive person all of the time.
How
do you do it?"
He replied, "Each morning I wake up and say to
myself, you have two choices
today. You can choose to be in a good mood or ...
you can choose to be in a bad
mood.
I choose to be in a good mood."
Each time something bad happens, I can choose to
be
a victim or...I can
choose to learn from it. I choose to learn from
it.
Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can
choose to accept their
complaining or... I can point out the positive
side
of life. I choose the positive
side of life.
"Yeah, right, it's not that easy," I protested.
"Yes, it is," he said. "Life is all about choices.
When you cut away all the
junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how
you react to situations. You
choose how people affect your mood.
You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. The
bottom line: It's your
choice how you live your life."
I reflected on what he said. Soon hereafter, I
left
the Tower Industry to
start my own business. We lost touch, but I often
thought about him when I made a
choice about life instead of reacting to it.
Several years later, I heard that he was involved
in
a serious accident,
falling some 60 feet from a communications tower.
After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive
care, he was released from
the hospital with rods placed in his back.
I saw him about six months after the accident.
When I asked him how he was, he replied, "If I
were
any better, I'd be
twins...Wanna see my scars?"
I declined to see his wounds, but I did ask him
what
had gone through his
mind as the accident took place.
"The first thing that went through my mind was
the
well-being of my
soon-to-be born daughter," he replied. "Then, as I
lay on the ground, I remembered
that I had two choices: I could choose to live
or...I could choose to die. I
chose to live."
"Weren't you scared? Did you lose consciousness?"
I
asked.
He continued, "..the paramedics were great.
They kept telling me I was going to be fine. But
when they wheeled me into
the ER and I saw the expressions on the faces of
the
doctors and nurses, I got
really scared. In their eyes, I read 'he's a dead
man'. I knew I needed to
take action."
"What did you do?" I asked.
"Well, there was a big burly nurse shouting
questions at me," said John. "She
asked if I was allergic to anything. 'Yes, I
replied.' The doctors and nurses
stopped working as they waited for my reply. I
took
a deep breath and yelled,
'Gravity'."
Over their laughter, I told them, "I am choosing
to
live. Operate on me as if
I am alive, not dead."
He lived, thanks to the skill of his doctors, but
also because of his amazing
attitude... I learned from him that every day we
have the choice to live
fully.
Attitude, after all, is everything.
Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for
tomorrow
will worry about itself.
Each day has enough trouble of its own." Matthew
6:34.
After all today is the tomorrow you worried about
yesterday.
Pam.
I am sorry I missed this yesterday.... I have heard it before but it never hurts to be reminded.... thanks.... I would have liked to have read it yesterday but today works good too....
Teresa
I am sorry I missed this yesterday.... I have heard it before but it never hurts to be reminded.... thanks.... I would have liked to have read it yesterday but today works good too....
Teresa
very nicely put. Thanks for posting that.
Thanks for the positive post...glad you are doing better...how's your pain?
Thanks you all, the pain is better today and I am feeling pretty good. I hope you all have a great day.
