May I Be So Bold To Ask Those Of You With Signifca

Pain Pills
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This board is hoppin' and has some gems. Moderators may want to consider "bolding" the really good stuff ! :-)

I would love it if the "old-timers" (and I mean no disrespect, for lack of a better word) could post the words " Valuable Information" in the topic title, in regards to recovery, so I can learn about how the ones way ahead of me have achieved stability in their lives ? Mentally, socially, physically ?

The pick and click keeps fooling me here. Life is too short, so why waste precious time ?

I realize it's my issue when I allow certain posts to upset me. You know the ones that go off in the ditch? I must work on my sensitivity.

However, part of my recovery program thus far is about becoming assertive and asking for what I need. So here's my attempt.

with gratitude in advance,

a little old ant who thinks she can move a rubber tree plant......
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Dear wonder woman,

First i want to commend you intaking this seriously. I wasnt however sure if by your post you meant you want to know more about the 12 step program or ANY successful program. I certainly understand not wanting to read the silly ramblings of a few.
If it is the 12 step you are intersted in I wouold really recommend that you go to the pills anonymous website....thats all they do there and they will welcome you with open arms.. No message board is perfect but they stick basically to the serious stuff of 12 steps there.
Good luck on your journey to a happier life

Peace2all
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I am thankful I am alive and can wake up every morning and breath air into my lungs. Can fill a cup of coffee, go out in the backyard and sit to just enjoy the silent beauty and the sounds of nature, the birds chirping and the squirls.

A babbling brook, an Ocean wave, a beautiful waterfall, a newborn baby.

To have hope and joy in my heart that I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. For his love, faith and hope and never ending love.

I am thankful for my family and friends.

I am thankful for laughter.

I am thankful I am healthy, have legs to walk on, eyes to see out of and a bed to sleep in.

I am thankful I live in America a free country.

I am thankful for my beautiful daughter.

I am thankful for recovery for all those who have gone before me and all the people on this board who open their hearts and share their strength and for the knowledge I gain from listening.

I am thankful that we can take what we learn and help others.

I am thankful to know I am not alone in this battle

Lovebird
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Sorry, my post was supposed to go to the Thankful post, I will copy and past it to the proper site. duh
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I thought I was losing my mind there for a sec. I had just read the Thankful thread and now I read it again on this thread...lol. Are you blonde like me, l ove bird?


Wonderwoman..I guess I'm not sure what you're looking for. Threads that say something so that you recoginize it as something you want to read versus the crap that you don't?

Happy to oblige, just help me understand it.

You want to know how some of are happily recovering addicts?

For me, it's working a serious 12 step program. It truly works if you work it.
At least it has for a year and a half.

Cowgirl
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Hey WW... what's up? Not much here... good to see you again... been awhile. I agree with Lisa when it comes to working the twelve steps. Just last week i came so close to losing my year's worth of sobriety/clean time. I did what i was told to do... i went to a meeting, reached out, asked questions, told the truth, got some numbers and made it through my 1 1/2 hour tooth extraction (apparently they had a hard time cuz my mouth is so small and it was hard to get around in there...lol) without any narcotics. I would have to say that it was the biggest test i have been through yet. I know that there are many more to come. But, after that i feel like i have at least learned something... the most important thing... to always, always, always be honest about how you are feeling and talk to others in recovery when your mind starts playing tricks on you. Man, even with the recovery time i do have I realized that my addiction is never too far away. All it takes is one major trigger and... boom... i am in denial. To me that is why it is just so important to go to my meetings. I thank God i had my meetings and this board to turn to. I am not saying that the 12 steps are the only way... it's just the only way that works for me. If you ever have any questions... don't hesitate... i will always be completely honest with you... it's part of the program i work... lol! Hope this helps some... take care and Happy Thanksgiving!

Love and God Bless,
Bri :)
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Cowgirl,

You are not losing your mind. Sorry for the confusion. I posted on the wrong site so reposted to the correct site. And... yes, I am blond.

Lovebird
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Us blondes need to stick together.

Have a great night.


Hi Bri, I'm so proud of you. You make me believe more and more in my own program when I hear things like this.

XXX
Lisa
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Cowgirl,

Hey, I am for blonds sticking together but...I have to wonder if two blonds sticking together could be a total disater. I mean what happens when we both get lost.

RE the 12 -step program There must be something to it. I know you get fustrated with those who just don't see it but how can one not notice your strength and conviction. Don't get discourged with those of us who are a little slow to catch on. Just keep being you.




Lovebird