My daughter works at a marijuana dispensary. She got the job about 6 months ago, and since then everything has changed in her life.
She is basically living in her car, with a bit of couch-surfing mixed in.
She had been in a very loving relationship until about a month ago. I spoke to her ex-boyfriend last week, and asked him if the reason they split up was due to her drug use. He confirmed that it was, and that he still loves her very much. I supported him and told him that he did the right thing by asking her to leave if she would not recognize that her over-consumption was causing their relationship problems.
I confronted her that day, and asked her to come over for dinner She was completely without remorse for breaking her boyfriend's heart, and she also did not show any signs of caring how I felt at all.
She stormed out.
Since then, I have only been able to see her at 'work' (the dispensary). I talked to her managers, and the owner, and they all tell me that THC is not toxic to the body, nor is it addictive.
I know that is not true and realized I would get nowhere with them.
This is very upsetting and I needed to share my story to hopefully get some support while she is going through this phase.
She is intelligent, beautiful and funny. She has always been very charming and free-spirited. Now that she is 21, there is nothing I can do to intervene.
I just have to watch her continue to make poor choices and hope she realizes that she is going downhill.
Two days after her boyfriend asked her to leave (they had been living together for over a year), she hooked up with a new guy, someone she met at work. They are now inseparable. He does not work, and they spend all their time dabbing.
Help!
Do you think maybe she is into more than just the weed?? Dabbing and marijuana really shouldn't have that strong of an effect on a person... I'm not saying it isn't, because I'm not expert.. But you might want to see if she is into other drugs because it sounds to me like more of an opiate addiction behavior! Regardless I am so sorry to hear this and wish you the best of luck and will keep you in my prayers.
