My boyfriend has been smoking pot and doing a little of everything for longer than i've known him. I am so conncend about him. I want to talk to him about it, but i don't know how. And I don't want it to seem like I am saying to him "it is either the drugs or me". I love him so much and I don't want to see him get hurt. Please help!
Thank you in advance
Candy, my suggestion would be to post this on the family and partners forum. They can give you advice for dealing with a loved one with a drug dependency.
Most of the folks who post here are still active in thier depedencies so you will be accepting advice from using addicts, which is not a good idea. Many here will tell you to stand by your man. My recommendation would be to begin attending Al Anon until you realize that you can probably do a whole lot better than this guy.
I would strongly urge you to avoid tieing the knot or having children with this guy.
August
Most of the folks who post here are still active in thier depedencies so you will be accepting advice from using addicts, which is not a good idea. Many here will tell you to stand by your man. My recommendation would be to begin attending Al Anon until you realize that you can probably do a whole lot better than this guy.
I would strongly urge you to avoid tieing the knot or having children with this guy.
August
