Today I learned my 26yr old son was on meth and crack xxanax and a alcoholic he informed me this via text message and to informed me that he was a big boy now and it was all my fault and I couldn't do a dam thing about it as he is in ny andi am in California I am truely heartbroken about this I new he was smoking marijuana and that didn't bother me as I use medical marijuana to control my cronic pain and other ilness I need help on what to do and what to say. I am so heartbroken about this I didn't even no what to say about it
My son also blames everyone fir not helping him. It's not his fault. He put the drugs in his mouth up his nose in is veins. I can only hope he gets arrested and not because he hurt some one . He is to good at his emotional blackmail. Stay strong be true to yourself we ha e on my one life to live and I'll be dam if some drug addict even ny son tries to control me . It's been 20+ years now and nothing and no one one has been able to get him to help himself
Cry get angry scream vent talked to friends but don't let it tear you apart. My son tried thank goodness for my husband and sister they keep me sane. I also have two other son's so now I think I wasn't a bad mom they are successful.
Cry get angry scream vent talked to friends but don't let it tear you apart. My son tried thank goodness for my husband and sister they keep me sane. I also have two other son's so now I think I wasn't a bad mom they are successful.
I am in the same boat, my son struggle bewitch drugs but not until the last 8 month is when I learned he was doing something stronger than just pills I am very ignorant about drugs. He is battling with low selfteam and depression, his gf left him 8 month ago that is when he star going downhill. He found another girl which also
Is a addict , but somehow she have desires to get better. I have been giving him tough love, but lately I start worried more las time I saw him was Christmas time until today, he look very bad.. He got blisters all over his fave he has Lost weight and he don't sleep well I don't know where to go or how to help . The only place I took him once was teen challenge he did not accept to stay . Please help me to find the resources at least to try
Is a addict , but somehow she have desires to get better. I have been giving him tough love, but lately I start worried more las time I saw him was Christmas time until today, he look very bad.. He got blisters all over his fave he has Lost weight and he don't sleep well I don't know where to go or how to help . The only place I took him once was teen challenge he did not accept to stay . Please help me to find the resources at least to try
everyone has choices. Don't make yourself sick over feeling guilty. The 3 C's. 1) I didn't cause it
2) I can't control it 3) I can't cure it.
2) I can't control it 3) I can't cure it.
Months ago my own son (who lives 300 miles away) also professed on his own that he's an alcoholic and sounded high on meth we he called me about it. He hasn't ever asked for money.
I don't understand why an addict would feel the need to call and profess it. It's almost like it's a way to get back at a parent for something.
Thoughts anyone?
I don't understand why an addict would feel the need to call and profess it. It's almost like it's a way to get back at a parent for something.
Thoughts anyone?
My son just turned 20 and has doing drugs since in was 14. When he was 17 I kicked him out of my house because I would come home and something would be missing TV jewelry my shoes or bags. Everyday I came home to a house where all the neighborhood kids would be during the day and they would eat all the food in the house and my kitchen would be a mess. I did everything I could to stop it but I had to work. I finally had enough and told him the next time he would have to leave. So I stuck to my promise and I packed his things and dropped him off at the park and it almost killed me. Two years he has been living on the streets, he preys on my in-laws whom are older and have cancer. They give him money and he hasn't been able to hit bottom because they feel sorry for him. Last Oct. his father died suddenly and left him a lot of money and three houses. I have been able so far to keep it from him all accept his grand parents give him a weekly allowance of 300 on every Friday and by Monday he is asking for more money. He was allowed to move into my x-husband home which is worth 250,00 which for Texas is a nice home. After 4 months of living there it is destroyed the garage fell down there's holes in the walls keep out in spray painted on every wall and all the doors have been removed. I couldn't believe that my son would tear up something his father worked so hard for. My son blames us for the way he is because we are both recovering drug addicts. He has been to jail 5 times since Oct with 2 felony charges. I have always gotten him out but I told him the last time I wouldn't anymore. He is in jail again now for 5 days and I'm not getting him out. His friends I am sure will because with out him they have no party house and they cant use him up. I don't know what to do about it and my new husband throws a fit if I even go over to his house to see him. I don't want him to have the same life his father and I did for so many years. I lost because I feel so bad for him and im scared he will end up killing his self because he doesn't care what he takes. I just feel lost
My son is an addict and in in-patient rehab right now for the 3rd time. We parents suffer so
intensely.
they are suffering more intensely with the disease. Get down on your hands and knees
if you have to and tell him just how he is destroying himself and his family. The pain is
unbearable and you want him to live and you want his family to live!! Beg him not to destroy
himself you love him too much to bear that!! I know it is so hard and seems hopeless at times
but don"t give up.
intensely.
they are suffering more intensely with the disease. Get down on your hands and knees
if you have to and tell him just how he is destroying himself and his family. The pain is
unbearable and you want him to live and you want his family to live!! Beg him not to destroy
himself you love him too much to bear that!! I know it is so hard and seems hopeless at times
but don"t give up.
My step son has been in jail for stealing thousands from his dad. He has been in rehab. He has been out for months. He continues to be with his drug friends. I have had to kick him out of our house because he continues to bring them to house when we are at work. Go through our drawers. Broke the washer and dryer. He has since moved to our camper and is continuing to sneak the people in. We don't want to push him too much but I feel he is so disrespectful and continues to lie to our face. And I am afraid of him. What is our next step?
