I posted on the Family Board but figured some of you may have some insight to this as well.. I am wanting to get direction on what and how to handle this...
I have just had the best week of my life.. I went to my sisters court date and they are keeping her until Nov 13. She stated to me that she wants to leave Birmingham alabama and come here to Florida with me.. I have been talking to her and she knows what I expect from her in order for her to stay with me.. She really seems like she wants to do this and I do understand that her views on this may change from day to day and that she can only promise me what she can do for today and we can hope for the best tomorrow.. She seems in really high sprits now and wants to be a part of my life. I feel like a kid before christmas. I am just trying to keep this all in perspective and realize that it may not work. And she may get out and go back to that way of life. But as for now it is looking good. Wanted to know if any of you could give me any steps to take before she comes here or things that I may be able to dohere for it to be easier for her. I have gotten rid of al lthe alcohol in the house. So that she will not be temped to do that.. I am planning on going to some NA meetngs this coming week in hopes of building some backbone andmake my self aware of what I need to be in store for so that it doesn't become a let down for me.. I have prayed for this day and now I feel like she may actually have a chance in all this.. I will keep you all informed. But I would appreciate any and all help with how I should proceed and what to expect from here on out in this.. Thanks to you all!!!
Kristi
A move to a new place could be just the thing she needs. The best thing I can advise is work on some strategies of keeping her occupied. Boredom is the biggest pitfall. Jump straight into a new project, and she won't have time to think too much about the past. A new job, or voluntary work, maybe an adult education course or some sort of training scheme. It may be worth your while getting in touch with the local probation service or parole office, to see what activities they may be able to help with. I don't know about NA - never really worked for me - I wanted to move on from the drugs, not sit about talking about them every other night, but each to their own. Perhaps they might be able give you some pointers as to things she could get involved with.
Life has to have meaning, and fun, or the drugs seem like the better option.
She's lucky to have a sister like you. I really hope it goes well.
love
diff x
Life has to have meaning, and fun, or the drugs seem like the better option.
She's lucky to have a sister like you. I really hope it goes well.
love
diff x
