Hi, I am new to this sight and was hoping that maybe someone could provide me with some helpful information. My husband began using lortab due to a back injury and before long was a full blown addict. I sat back and watched him go from taking his prescribed amount to taking atleast 15 a day. I knew there was aproblem but could not make him see that he was destroying himself,our marriage, and our family. After spending every dime he would earn and constant searches for more when he was out,I had all I could take. I didn't know what to do to help him and was at a point that I had to face that I couldn't help him until he was ready to help himself. I began to focus on what I needed to do for me and our child and after alot of tears and sleepless nights God answered my prayers and he decided to get clean. That was alittle over 3 months ago. He began treatment at a methadone clinic and at first it seemed like it was going to help. He is now at apoint that he is tired all the time,however rarely sleeps.He is very depressed and finds it difficult to drag himself from the bed. I spend alot of time alone worrying about him and I hate it that things are so difficult for him. He is wanting to detox from the methadone and be free and feel good again. I have heard about this rapid detox and was wondering if any of you have done this or know much about it. My marriage is very important to me, if it werent I would have left a long time ago. I just want to help him and be supportive any way that I can.
Welcome to the board. Why did he go the methadone route? methadone is probably the hardest opiate to get off of. Did he go to a doctor?
You should read Mistyeyes thread on suboxone, that would probably be a better option than methadone.
Maybe he needs an anti-depressant, opiates screw our brain chemistry up and it takes a while for it to get back to normal.
As far as the rapid detox, Ive heard a lot of nightmares about that, i just read a lot of info on that last night and you want I could try to track that info down and post it for you.
Good luck
JohnDee
You should read Mistyeyes thread on suboxone, that would probably be a better option than methadone.
Maybe he needs an anti-depressant, opiates screw our brain chemistry up and it takes a while for it to get back to normal.
As far as the rapid detox, Ive heard a lot of nightmares about that, i just read a lot of info on that last night and you want I could try to track that info down and post it for you.
Good luck
JohnDee
He took the methadone route because he didnt know what else to do. A lot of people (other addicts) had refered him there. He started the program with little knowledge of it and I was so glad that he was seeking help. We were not aware of how it affects the body and mind or how long and hard this path would be.
Addwife, does he still need relief from pain?
He hasnt been on the meth long so it might be better if he made a move soon before it gets too hard.
Are you in the US?
Did he ever try to taper of cold turkey? From what I've heard meth is a real bear to get off of, the worst.
Theres no quick fix, it takes time to get addicted and it takes time to get back to normal.
Why dont you have him post here, it seems slow tonight but most nights there's a lot of advice.
JohnDee
He hasnt been on the meth long so it might be better if he made a move soon before it gets too hard.
Are you in the US?
Did he ever try to taper of cold turkey? From what I've heard meth is a real bear to get off of, the worst.
Theres no quick fix, it takes time to get addicted and it takes time to get back to normal.
Why dont you have him post here, it seems slow tonight but most nights there's a lot of advice.
JohnDee
Yes, he still needs something to manage his pain. He is on 110mg of liquid a day. At first he said that he didnt hurt that much but over the last few weeks he has compained repetivelyabout aches and pain at the injury sight,muscle cramps, and joint pain.I would love for him to post here but I cant drag him from the bed.
Hi Addictswife,
My husband was also addicted to his pain meds.......and has chronic pain issues.....Like John said there is no easy answer to this, and no right and wrong way either. It is up to your husband to decide the best course of action for him.....I will be on for alittle while if you have any questions or just need to vent.
Take care,
Tina
My husband was also addicted to his pain meds.......and has chronic pain issues.....Like John said there is no easy answer to this, and no right and wrong way either. It is up to your husband to decide the best course of action for him.....I will be on for alittle while if you have any questions or just need to vent.
Take care,
Tina
I'm sorry I don't have any profound wisdom to post to you. All I can say is you came to the right place. There are some wonderful people on here who have personal stories and info on detox, tapering, sub, etc. You will get a vast amount of info, just give it some time. By tomorrow many of the regulars will be on with some info. I have no clue about methadone or rapid detox. Please continue to post here and also on the family board if you wish so you can get some support for yourself as well as hubby. I will be praying for you both.
Wife,
I bumped up a thread called "Getting Clean and Staying Clean". There is some info on there that might help you.
I bumped up a thread called "Getting Clean and Staying Clean". There is some info on there that might help you.
Tina,
Thanks.Venting helps sometimes because I seem so helpless. Ive tried to talk to some of my friends but that is hard to do when they really dont understand what it is like to live with this on a daily basis.I find myself at times becoming withdrawn and not wanting to talk to those I know because they just do not understand the hurt and frustration that I feel.I never realized how strong I was until I sat back and thought about the vicious cycle it has taken me thru.But for the grace of God go I!
Thanks.Venting helps sometimes because I seem so helpless. Ive tried to talk to some of my friends but that is hard to do when they really dont understand what it is like to live with this on a daily basis.I find myself at times becoming withdrawn and not wanting to talk to those I know because they just do not understand the hurt and frustration that I feel.I never realized how strong I was until I sat back and thought about the vicious cycle it has taken me thru.But for the grace of God go I!
Well I will tell you that you are not alone.......There are many on both sides of the fence. I am so happy that I found this site. I do tend to hang out more here than the Family forum. Thats because I met so many amazingly wonderful people when I first arrived here. The family forum wasn't up yet. I hold to many here to close to my heart to leave, and post only there. I hope that you hang around. You will get lots of support from those who understand. On the other forum there are some great posts, one is detachment 2, read that if you can, it will be helpful to you. I wish I had that magic answer to take all the pain and worry away.........Trust in knowing it will come......
I like you couldn't just leave my husband to do this on his own...........I had to stay and support him, while not easy at times........He is worth all the support and love I give.
Hugs,
Tina
I like you couldn't just leave my husband to do this on his own...........I had to stay and support him, while not easy at times........He is worth all the support and love I give.
Hugs,
Tina
