Not been around as my bank account got internet hacked and we lost 7k in pounds. Sounds a lot but 3and a half was an overdraft facility and I've been running about like a loop trying to sort everything think I have now.
Still doing okay still living alone for now but I'm feeling this is good feeling he's taking space to sort himself out.
RIP Amy Winehouse got cross today with the press of course saying she deserved it because she was an addict. Seems the media play by 2 different rules on this one - the rock an roll men who take drugs are just being hell raisers and the ones who die - well what a waste of talent. but the women who go the same way they're just weak - sad for her family.
I want to stab the tv tonight.
xx
On no...thats terrible scary !...its gettiing so prevelant these days...makes u really nervous about being on the net sometimes...i hope u get it worked out !...and as always; you and your man are in my thoughts....I hope he stays safe and finds his way back home somehow and I hope you stay strong and your days get brighter....
ya, in the news a famous musician is sometimes damed if they do and damned if they dont...especially the women....its cool for a guy to have a habit but its another story somehow for a women...double standard...but double standard it seems for all musicians....public likes thier musicians a bit twisted...and then when they die its all their fault...go figure
Con
ya, in the news a famous musician is sometimes damed if they do and damned if they dont...especially the women....its cool for a guy to have a habit but its another story somehow for a women...double standard...but double standard it seems for all musicians....public likes thier musicians a bit twisted...and then when they die its all their fault...go figure
Con
Very true Con.
I've always thought that of booze, here if you don't drink you're an alien but if you drink and can't handle it you're a piss head. My bloke doesn't drink because he really doesn't like the taste if anything it's vodka and orange so then he just tastes the orange. But because everyone else does drinkhe tends to go out with his mates for a cuppa tea during the day or food at weekends which is a bit sad.
x
I've always thought that of booze, here if you don't drink you're an alien but if you drink and can't handle it you're a piss head. My bloke doesn't drink because he really doesn't like the taste if anything it's vodka and orange so then he just tastes the orange. But because everyone else does drinkhe tends to go out with his mates for a cuppa tea during the day or food at weekends which is a bit sad.
x
I there jez I am new here, you seem to be taking it very well the trouble with your bank, I wont have an online account because of that reason, if I want to buy something on line then I just give the cash to a mate, to tell the truth I dont use credit very much at all,
Its good that you are being realistic and not reacting emotionally over it
Dont let the bast*rds drag you down
DD
Its good that you are being realistic and not reacting emotionally over it
Dont let the bast*rds drag you down
DD
JAZ
I,m way behind with all the gossip on the page doll but i hope things work out for you,,yer guy has been oh.so lucky to have you there for him,n,i sincerely hope he realises this..
Anyway,,you take care,n,keep yer chin up..
ECK
I,m way behind with all the gossip on the page doll but i hope things work out for you,,yer guy has been oh.so lucky to have you there for him,n,i sincerely hope he realises this..
Anyway,,you take care,n,keep yer chin up..
ECK
Eckie
Did we lose you to FB is that why you stopped being around here.
To tell you the truth me and my man aren't so good, a very good guy always was then he gets off the meth and on the subbies and it's been downhill from there.
Three times he stole money from me never in 8 years then 3 times. The cost of a bag has double, gas electricity everything gone up but that is no excuse I never would have believed it.
So I took away his key packed his clothes up and told him to call me when he's clean.
Since then I've seen him maybe twice he clings to the dream that we'll be okay again and he'll get clean but it's not happening for him. Yesterday he was talking about joining a gym but I hear he's in a dark place, worse I think because he's alone. But the stealing I can't have that Eck I work too hard and I won't be the money police. He called today says he hates himself and his life, he's got to take the subbies not blag he's taking him.
I don't understand he wants off so bad and can't do it.
Hope you are good Mr.
What you up to?
x
Did we lose you to FB is that why you stopped being around here.
To tell you the truth me and my man aren't so good, a very good guy always was then he gets off the meth and on the subbies and it's been downhill from there.
Three times he stole money from me never in 8 years then 3 times. The cost of a bag has double, gas electricity everything gone up but that is no excuse I never would have believed it.
So I took away his key packed his clothes up and told him to call me when he's clean.
Since then I've seen him maybe twice he clings to the dream that we'll be okay again and he'll get clean but it's not happening for him. Yesterday he was talking about joining a gym but I hear he's in a dark place, worse I think because he's alone. But the stealing I can't have that Eck I work too hard and I won't be the money police. He called today says he hates himself and his life, he's got to take the subbies not blag he's taking him.
I don't understand he wants off so bad and can't do it.
Hope you are good Mr.
What you up to?
x
Hmmmmm!!!
Jaz ma dear,i wish i had all the answers..I honestly dont know of anyone here or anywhere else fr that matter who has got themselves clean only too relapse again at a later date more than me..My brother who is very anti-drugs said to me a few years ago"listen sir!!"You are either gonna have to either get off that s***e or stay on it"I dont know much about it except what i,ve seen wi you but you cannot keep doing this to yourself,,you cant keep putting yer body through this"So i,m probably the last person who could belittle yer guy on that front..
Thieving and lying!! I also hate that,,i know with most addicts it goes hand,n,hand but i do not like it,,i do not like people thinking i cannot be trusted especially my close friends,n,my family..
I remember a post you made months ago whether on here or on the families board about your guy only taking a bag a week etc but you found out somehow that he,d been getting more benefits than you had known about so at that time and now i think he was taking more than he made out to you..He,s a lucky,lucky guy to have you,n,i totally understand why he,s practically crawlin on his bell y to get back with you..The guy knows where he was well off,n,it is s***E being alone after being with someone who loved and cared for you..
I found being on my own after being in a relationship fr 20yrs,n,the foto on fbook that mon,n,con seen was of my x and my 2kids..I,ve been right through serious depression which all came to a head around xmas of last year when i did not care whether i lived or died..It can be a truly s***ty way of life at times,n,i wish i did have the answers bcoz being a thrifty Scotsman i,d bottle it,n,sell it...
Anyway Jaz,,,i,ve rambled on,n,on here so i,d better get myself off now..Yeez have not lost me to facebook though as i still pop in and out,i just dont like starting a thread,i never have..Sometimes though i do have things i wanna say,n,wish i had a wee bit more confidence to post them without worrying about regretting it as soon as i,ve hit the button..
You take care though Jaz bcoz you are a super caring person who deserves a decent shot at life,n,happiness,n,if you are anything like mysef then thats all i,m lookin for,,,just to be happy,n,content fr the 1st time in a long time.....................ECK...xxxx...........................
Jaz ma dear,i wish i had all the answers..I honestly dont know of anyone here or anywhere else fr that matter who has got themselves clean only too relapse again at a later date more than me..My brother who is very anti-drugs said to me a few years ago"listen sir!!"You are either gonna have to either get off that s***e or stay on it"I dont know much about it except what i,ve seen wi you but you cannot keep doing this to yourself,,you cant keep putting yer body through this"So i,m probably the last person who could belittle yer guy on that front..
Thieving and lying!! I also hate that,,i know with most addicts it goes hand,n,hand but i do not like it,,i do not like people thinking i cannot be trusted especially my close friends,n,my family..
I remember a post you made months ago whether on here or on the families board about your guy only taking a bag a week etc but you found out somehow that he,d been getting more benefits than you had known about so at that time and now i think he was taking more than he made out to you..He,s a lucky,lucky guy to have you,n,i totally understand why he,s practically crawlin on his bell y to get back with you..The guy knows where he was well off,n,it is s***E being alone after being with someone who loved and cared for you..
I found being on my own after being in a relationship fr 20yrs,n,the foto on fbook that mon,n,con seen was of my x and my 2kids..I,ve been right through serious depression which all came to a head around xmas of last year when i did not care whether i lived or died..It can be a truly s***ty way of life at times,n,i wish i did have the answers bcoz being a thrifty Scotsman i,d bottle it,n,sell it...
Anyway Jaz,,,i,ve rambled on,n,on here so i,d better get myself off now..Yeez have not lost me to facebook though as i still pop in and out,i just dont like starting a thread,i never have..Sometimes though i do have things i wanna say,n,wish i had a wee bit more confidence to post them without worrying about regretting it as soon as i,ve hit the button..
You take care though Jaz bcoz you are a super caring person who deserves a decent shot at life,n,happiness,n,if you are anything like mysef then thats all i,m lookin for,,,just to be happy,n,content fr the 1st time in a long time.....................ECK...xxxx...........................
That's the hell of it Eck.
I keep meeting clean guys with money and houses and lovely cars and they're all egotistical axxx holes who don't know anything, have never been anywhere and haven't got a political idea in their heads. My man has more integrity and compassion in his little finger but he's got a 90 a week habit and so I can't be in that it'll take me down.
So what's to do? Like I always say sometimes the brightest cleverest and most sensitive walk that road.
I'm in Glasgow for a week this week on holiday.
you take care
fingers crossed for everyone
and yes i'm with your brother the getting clean relapsing what does it do to you worse than not trying to get clean i think
xx
I keep meeting clean guys with money and houses and lovely cars and they're all egotistical axxx holes who don't know anything, have never been anywhere and haven't got a political idea in their heads. My man has more integrity and compassion in his little finger but he's got a 90 a week habit and so I can't be in that it'll take me down.
So what's to do? Like I always say sometimes the brightest cleverest and most sensitive walk that road.
I'm in Glasgow for a week this week on holiday.
you take care
fingers crossed for everyone
and yes i'm with your brother the getting clean relapsing what does it do to you worse than not trying to get clean i think
xx
