So here i am needing help. I have to deal with the kids in a bad mood and fighting and im dealing with a fiancee who is no longer engaged to me anymore. But he is still my boyfriend, and were still liveing togeather.(cold feet i guess)
And im haveing the shakes horrible right now. I dont even have any money to go buy the over the counter medicines that you all said to get.
I guess i just decided to jump the gun on all this.........but i guess its gonna be worth it in the end.
WHY DO I KEEP GUESSING AT THINGS RIGHT NOW.??
I WANT TO LIVE WITH OUT THE PILLS AND IM READY NOW TO DO IT.
BUT EVERYONE THINKS THAT IM IN A BAD MOOD AND THERE ALL SAYING THAT THEY LIKE IT BETTER WHEN IM THE WAY I WAS. OF COURSE THEY DONT KNOW ALL ABOUT THE PILLS ANYMORE.!!!!!!!!
I HAVE TO JUMP ON AND OFF OF HERE BECAUSE OF NOT FEELING TO GOOD, BUT I'LL BE CHECKING IN .
THANK YOU ALL FOR HELPING ME.
YOUR FRIEND, CHRISTINA*~~~*
christina,
try and just lay down and focus on something soothing, somewhere warm comforting, blanketing and secure in your mind. for about 15 minutes or so at a time. i doubt the fam will allow for too much down time huh? even if ya just sit on the couch and try and block out the noise and focus in your mind on something peaceful and comforting right now. wrap up in a blanket. not sure if your feeling like a hot bath yet. drink some water. do you have some benadryl i heard that helps calm you. thats all i have for you right now. oh and pray. i will be praying with you.
terrianne
try and just lay down and focus on something soothing, somewhere warm comforting, blanketing and secure in your mind. for about 15 minutes or so at a time. i doubt the fam will allow for too much down time huh? even if ya just sit on the couch and try and block out the noise and focus in your mind on something peaceful and comforting right now. wrap up in a blanket. not sure if your feeling like a hot bath yet. drink some water. do you have some benadryl i heard that helps calm you. thats all i have for you right now. oh and pray. i will be praying with you.
terrianne
Christina,
What you are going through is so normal, your body is telling you it does not like not being fed the pills. Your system is so used to a certain way, that its upset right now. I hate to tell you this but its gonna be awhile before your body isn't pissed off at you, so to speak. All you can do is take one day at a time and focus on you. Try to stay busy, I know it hurts to get off the couch sometimes, but it really will help.
Hang tough friend
Redd
What you are going through is so normal, your body is telling you it does not like not being fed the pills. Your system is so used to a certain way, that its upset right now. I hate to tell you this but its gonna be awhile before your body isn't pissed off at you, so to speak. All you can do is take one day at a time and focus on you. Try to stay busy, I know it hurts to get off the couch sometimes, but it really will help.
Hang tough friend
Redd
thats funny.......I tell you to get up and stay busy and Boo tells you to lay down.......sorry friend, we didn't mean to confuse ya'.........maybe Boos right......
I'm alot of help aren't I.........
Redd
I'm alot of help aren't I.........
Redd
redd,
i was just tryen to remember the shakes the kind that make you feel lighteheaded at first, so depends what kind of shakes she has huh? if its anxiety shaken then yeah move around, but if your light headed shaken take a break?
does that sound better ? maybe some one else can chime in
terrianne
i was just tryen to remember the shakes the kind that make you feel lighteheaded at first, so depends what kind of shakes she has huh? if its anxiety shaken then yeah move around, but if your light headed shaken take a break?
does that sound better ? maybe some one else can chime in
terrianne
I know what you are saying Boo, the shakes suck.
Redd
Redd
That makes me sad that your family isn't being supportive for you.
You can ease some of the withdrawals without those OTC's.They didn't work all that well for me when i was in wd anyway.
Take a lot of hot baths and showers.Drink oj for the calcium and try to make yourself drink a ton of water and you need to eat.Food helps more than we think.Even if it is just broth from soup or something.
mabe a neighbor can give you some motrin or something?
Can someone lend you some money for a few days?
just hang in there and keep taking it one minute at a time.That is your job for the day.
I haven't been here to follow your story so i don't know why your loved ones don't know you are in withdrawal but it might help if you tell them.
hang in there.
love,
ladybug
You can ease some of the withdrawals without those OTC's.They didn't work all that well for me when i was in wd anyway.
Take a lot of hot baths and showers.Drink oj for the calcium and try to make yourself drink a ton of water and you need to eat.Food helps more than we think.Even if it is just broth from soup or something.
mabe a neighbor can give you some motrin or something?
Can someone lend you some money for a few days?
just hang in there and keep taking it one minute at a time.That is your job for the day.
I haven't been here to follow your story so i don't know why your loved ones don't know you are in withdrawal but it might help if you tell them.
hang in there.
love,
ladybug
Dear Christina,
Hang in there girl! This is a hard time for you right now. I know that my children are all off from school on mon. d/t president's day. This is the weekend and sounds to me like you have a lot of stress going on. I would do anything I can to help you. My name is Stephanie and if you write on the board to me, I will be sure to get back to you. My name on here is bebegirl and I keep getting logged off , automatically? don't know, I am here!! Please let me help .
you are in my thoughts and prayers, Stephanie
Hang in there girl! This is a hard time for you right now. I know that my children are all off from school on mon. d/t president's day. This is the weekend and sounds to me like you have a lot of stress going on. I would do anything I can to help you. My name is Stephanie and if you write on the board to me, I will be sure to get back to you. My name on here is bebegirl and I keep getting logged off , automatically? don't know, I am here!! Please let me help .
you are in my thoughts and prayers, Stephanie
Christina...I am here for you, too. If the shakes are chills, bundle up in layers. I can't advise you get up and move around. It may help, but I couldn't do it. I was totally zonked. If you can get the OTC stuff, it will help greatly. Take care and stay strong! We will be here for you!!
