had a phone call this morning of neil he had just got bck from the hospital as he tryed to commit suicide last night ,i asked him why an he said he dont know he is just sooo pissed off , i said but your out soon (14 wks) an he said that is scaring him too , i told him he needs to speak to someone an he said he spoke to the shrink last night an he tld him something in confidence an this morning the shrink started telling the screwws what he said on the landing infront of everyone so now he refuses to speak to him , he then had to finish the call as it was time for bang up !! im just so worried i feel helpless an especially scared , i thought he would be chuffed to be getting out soon but he sounds soooo low , any advice
emma x
Hey Emz, sorry to hear about Neil going through all that. That is bang out of order the shrink telling the screws that, that is not on!. There is something wrong with that! Advice? Just do what you are doing, be there for him as you always have been.
When is the next time you will speak to him? When you do try and get out of him what is up. He will be feeling ashamed, emarrassed ect about the whole situation ( i was when i tried) but he will want to get it off his chest. Take care, Kev
When is the next time you will speak to him? When you do try and get out of him what is up. He will be feeling ashamed, emarrassed ect about the whole situation ( i was when i tried) but he will want to get it off his chest. Take care, Kev
hi kev thanks for yr reply , yr right he did feel imbarrased etc but things seem to be running smoothly at the mo fingers crossed , any way i was thinking omg what if you was ever in the nick with him he wld kill me lol , he has been in : cumbria not sure wat the jail is called , wymott,altcourse,risley,walton , i know it was about 18 moon ago ??? you was inside right? wat are the chances lol but ya never know scary lol , take care emma xx
