An other event in my life that's going on ,is Sandy,s indecision on what to do. Her not working is finally taking its toll. When she called Dave's G/F ,of course she asked if there was anything she could do. I mentioned that she was in shock,and having a hard time accepting the whole tragic thing, so Sandy offered to go say with her for a few days.
So at 6 am this morning ,I just got back ,I dropped her off at Daves G/F,s place and she is going to stay with her for awhile
Its good for Ellie(I might as well give her a name) & that kind of the English version that it transfers best too.
So now Sandy & Ellie are going to be roommates for a week or 2 Im guessing. I gotta say Im in one helluva relationship. Im OK with this though. I hope she controls her drinking. Like I mentioned ,its not out of control but its more than usual.- She has said that she wants to start working for the holidays ,so that sounds good. I think that the last trip up to her sisters ,she didnt get the vibes she was looking for,so now she,s leaning towards - "Im so sorry, l,ll slow down on the drinking & lets make a serious go of this dilemma "- That would be fine with me -15 years is hard to forget Especially when neither one of us did anything to each to cause any bad feelings.
Well , let me get the coffee on. Its only me & my son for awhile- --Never a dull moment
jack
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Jack i think Sandy giving Ellie some female company can only be a good thing....when someone close to you dies so suddenly its good to have someone around to have a chat and a grieve ...not constantly of course as you need to grieve on yer own also....but its positive either way.
Also am glad you and Sandy are seeing more eye to eye now ..hope it continues as you said 15yrs.is a hell of a long time to just throw away as theres no animosity between either of you.
Jack ive always respected your wisdom so i hope it works for you ..strange as the times are at the moment for you.ATB my freind.......Davey
Also am glad you and Sandy are seeing more eye to eye now ..hope it continues as you said 15yrs.is a hell of a long time to just throw away as theres no animosity between either of you.
Jack ive always respected your wisdom so i hope it works for you ..strange as the times are at the moment for you.ATB my freind.......Davey
Jack, that's an act of human kindness right there..........Sandy is very kind and thoughtful to have offered to stay with Ellie.......honestly she will be such a big comfort to her.
Sandy has a good heart..........and it'll be good for her too.........such a tragic thing to happen and often it's the worse of times makes us see how Blessed we are.........soooooo maybe Sandy will come out with that in the long run.
We know Sandy gotta be cool.........she has such a wonderful and compassionate mate..........and she's showing how good a person she is.
Ellie? Translate that to Marisol.........that's my favorite Latino name, Marisol.
Probably just means Mary.........cool all the same though.........thinking of ya.
You boys behave by yourselves now, K?
Sandy has a good heart..........and it'll be good for her too.........such a tragic thing to happen and often it's the worse of times makes us see how Blessed we are.........soooooo maybe Sandy will come out with that in the long run.
We know Sandy gotta be cool.........she has such a wonderful and compassionate mate..........and she's showing how good a person she is.
Ellie? Translate that to Marisol.........that's my favorite Latino name, Marisol.
Probably just means Mary.........cool all the same though.........thinking of ya.
You boys behave by yourselves now, K?
