Reshie
There you go again on Zaine,s thread,,the guys trying his besrting to get his sense of humour back and you,ve just dived in like a car crash..
No one wants you to fcuk off as you ask,at least i dont,n,i think i,m probably speaking for the others when i say they dont either,,what right do any of us have to say a thing like that??I,ll bet there would be just as many would like me to fcuk off as yerself,,i may even get into bother for saying these things but am gonna anyway.
What is the point of this site??U tell me,,what i do is take what or who i want and leave the rest but hey thats just me..What do you expect from it??I can tell your getting mega pissed off on top of being mega pissed off...
I dont know if you think your the only one with problems bcoz your not,,i,m up to my eyebrows with problems but i certainly dont want to share them on here,,but hey!!thats just selfish old me..
I,m sorry in advance for this but do you think your kid seeing you like this would,ve been a good thing??I dont,,we were having a laugh on the other thread bcoz it was funny but you came on not prepared to have a laugh saying you just seen someone allmost killed or dead or something,,u shoulda started it on another thread instead of trying to kill the joke stone dead..
you really need to get a sense of humour m8 or go and see someone like some of the others have said..I,d be interested in what u think this site is or what it should be..Anyway,take care Eck
Posted by reshie on Zaine's thread:
I got news for ya...you still are. As for anyone telling you how to use the site...use it however you wish, but don't expect everyone to dive right into your dark little pity-pot. What you offered was not encouragement or hope, but words upon words upon words...made it all about you again...helped me recall why I stayed away.
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I got news for ya...you still are. As for anyone telling you how to use the site...use it however you wish, but don't expect everyone to dive right into your dark little pity-pot. What you offered was not encouragement or hope, but words upon words upon words...made it all about you again...helped me recall why I stayed away.
Ok maybe I am a bit negative but I was just being honest. I don't think sugar-coating the expeience does anyone any favours. And as for making it about me,me,me, who else am I supposed to make it about? Surely the point is we bring our personal perspective to the site and people take what they wish.
But I take both of your points. I am trying. It just seems like lately everyone seems to have it in for me. Well I'll try another tack.
Things are much better since I got off the H ship. I have many more positives in my life and as for problems, they'll sort themselves out one way or another.
I went to a nudist beach and that was quite an expeience. A lot more women than men which I found surprising. And the women were much less self-concious than the guys in general which I thought would have been the other way round. It was a cheap,fun day out and I enjoyed it immensely.
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But I take both of your points. I am trying. It just seems like lately everyone seems to have it in for me. Well I'll try another tack.
Things are much better since I got off the H ship. I have many more positives in my life and as for problems, they'll sort themselves out one way or another.
I went to a nudist beach and that was quite an expeience. A lot more women than men which I found surprising. And the women were much less self-concious than the guys in general which I thought would have been the other way round. It was a cheap,fun day out and I enjoyed it immensely.
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Having just read through all of my posts, it is abundantly clear that I am a dark, negative, unpleasant person with dark,negative,unpleasant thoughts which end up on the pages of this site. Many of my friends tell me the same thing. My GF's favorite saying is that I am "the glass half empty with poison" person. A very learned friend who is a Professor Emeritus says that my state of mind is reflected in my choice of reading material: demonology, murder/forensics, torture, the occult, etc....He says to me:" In a sense, you are what you read. If you choose to immerse yourself in such dark and unpleasant books, you cannot then be surprised that you are not of a sunny disposition."
So there you are. I see now what others have been saying for some time. I would like to stop being like this. How could/should I go about accomplishing this?
Reshie?
So there you are. I see now what others have been saying for some time. I would like to stop being like this. How could/should I go about accomplishing this?
Reshie?
We get it you're mind is of galactic proportions you're a tortured soul nobody understands you you're a close personal friend of the Dali lama, Stephen Hawking, Nelson Mandela the pope and have a direct line to God via Einstein and Charles Darwin. your IQ is off the charts and you taught Jesus Christ how to walk on water after you rigged up a time machine out of used tea bags and two coat hangers.
You're NOT pretentious, you don't use a thesaurus to beef out every sentence and definitely are not self pitying or a pseudo intellectual who is more elastic with the truth than a 25 stone hookers knickers.
I can't converse with you anymore but good luck with your beautiful daughter and your recovery.
You're NOT pretentious, you don't use a thesaurus to beef out every sentence and definitely are not self pitying or a pseudo intellectual who is more elastic with the truth than a 25 stone hookers knickers.
I can't converse with you anymore but good luck with your beautiful daughter and your recovery.
I just don't get why you've attacked me like that Kat. And as for the way I write, there are many who find the way I express myself a good thing. I don't know what I've ever done to you but if you don't want to support me and feel you can't convere with me, it's your choice. Whatever it is I have done to offend, I'm sorry.
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kitt sez
a pseudo intellectual who is more elastic with the truth than a 25 stone hookers knickers.
i love this
a pseudo intellectual who is more elastic with the truth than a 25 stone hookers knickers.
i love this
WHAT?
That is classic.
Man, Kitte needs to write. She does.
Reshie you knock it the he*l off. I have a girl for ya. My DD. Maybe you are twins. Maybe I had two kids at birth and they took ya across the pond.
People do not want to hear negative. They hate self loathing. It don't work. When something does not work then ya try another way.
Elastic. Knickers.
Gotta ask Kitte to borrow that.
That is classic.
Man, Kitte needs to write. She does.
Reshie you knock it the he*l off. I have a girl for ya. My DD. Maybe you are twins. Maybe I had two kids at birth and they took ya across the pond.
People do not want to hear negative. They hate self loathing. It don't work. When something does not work then ya try another way.
Elastic. Knickers.
Gotta ask Kitte to borrow that.
I was just thinking the same thing Brynda. Kat has certainly got a talent for writing - it's amazing! Lol.
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You know, we all share our experiences and express ourselves as best we can. Sometimes talking about what has worked for us helps another, sometimes spewing our thoughts, whatever they are can be helpful TO US, more than to another...that's what the Recovery Diaries forum is for...we can post there solo, no responses, and get it all out...others can read it and take what they like from it.
Reshie, you have an unattractive habit of tossing out how well-connected, well-educated, and well-spoken (written) you are...it comes off as if you think yourself above the rest of us. Telling us your 'friend' is Professor Emeritus was meaningless except as a way to show once again how special you perceive yourself to be. Why not just say "a friend"? While some have praised your eloquence, that seems to mean more to you than actual recovery...I'll take Eckie's heartfelt prose, Bryn's poignant and disarming stream of consciousness, Jack's sense of humor and honesty, and KK's in-your-face and self-effacing manner...it is a true pleasure to read their posts and I look for them eagerly each time I log on here.
We are all free to take you or leave you, as we are always free here to say as we please until we cross the moderators' lines. I will not indulge your attention-seeking anymore...it's tiresome and BORING and I'm getting off this particular ride now.
Reshie, you have an unattractive habit of tossing out how well-connected, well-educated, and well-spoken (written) you are...it comes off as if you think yourself above the rest of us. Telling us your 'friend' is Professor Emeritus was meaningless except as a way to show once again how special you perceive yourself to be. Why not just say "a friend"? While some have praised your eloquence, that seems to mean more to you than actual recovery...I'll take Eckie's heartfelt prose, Bryn's poignant and disarming stream of consciousness, Jack's sense of humor and honesty, and KK's in-your-face and self-effacing manner...it is a true pleasure to read their posts and I look for them eagerly each time I log on here.
We are all free to take you or leave you, as we are always free here to say as we please until we cross the moderators' lines. I will not indulge your attention-seeking anymore...it's tiresome and BORING and I'm getting off this particular ride now.
