Symptoms Of Crack Use

Well I am in somewhat the same situation. I think my boyfriend is on cocaine. He is always getting missing on the weekends. Especially if it is a payday. Like today he cashed his paycheck at 11 am and was broke by 8 pm. His mother says that he is on drugs very bad. We do not argue or fight and he has an extremly high sex drive. He recently had to take drug test for a new job and he passed. When I asked him about it he denies. He feels that who ever is telling me this are jealous of our relationship. He has no idea that it is his mother. What should I do to get the truth out of him. I do now for a fact that he hangs out at some known crack house.
I founf my mother last night smoking crack, I have known that she has had a on again off again cocaine habbit for some time but seeing as I am going to college full time and working full time I really have come to have to think of myself and my younger sister before her. Since myself and my sister were very young (wrounf 10) I have founf bindles of cocaine around our house, because we live in an upscale area of california there are industry people who would be in and out of the house, my mother blamed the drungs on them beign 10 , or 12, or even now at 22 I want to believe MY MOTHER that she is tellign the truth. Now I am doen being the fool she is a drug addict and needs help but How do I make my mother go to rehab that she wont pay for and I cannot afford..
HELPsbgirl93105@aol.com
THIS IS A MESSAGE FOR CARZY HOW WROTE IN ON 12/03.
I'M SORRY TO HERE WHAT'S HAPPENING TO YOUR RLATIONSHIP i WAS IN THE SAME ONE BUT FOR 14 YEARS HE STARTED AT THE AGE OF 15. AND WE MET IN HGH SCHOOL BACK IN 1986.I RECENTLY HAD OPEN HEART SURGERY NOT BECAUSE OF THE DRUGS BECAUSE I DON'T BOTHER WITH IT BUT BECAUSE I WAS BORN WITH AN INLARGE BLOOD VESSAL IT GOT BIGGER OVER TME,HE WOULD LEAVE MY HOUSE FOR 3 DAYS AT A TIME AND BLOW HIS WHOLE CHECK. I ALSO WAS READY TO GIVE UP OR HOPING SOMETHING WOULD HAPPEN TO HIM BUT YA SEE MY SON'S FATHER WAS AND STILL IS A BS'R IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN. HE'S BEEN IN AND OUT OF PRISON ,JAIL AND EVEN REHAB. AND AFTER HEREING I'M GOING TO STOP AFTER WHILE IT'S MIND BOGGING AND USELESS.
SO WHILE I WAS HAVING OPEN HEART SURGERY HE DECIDED TO GET MARRIED AND HAS A BABY GIRL HE'S SOMETHING ELSE
AND ON TOP OF THAT NEVER TOLD ME I FOUND OUT FROM HIS WIFE WHILE THEY BOTH WERE IN THE FAMILY SHELTER SO YA SEE NO ADDIT CARES ABOUT OTHERS NOR THEMSELVES.
THIS IS A MESSAGE FOR CARZY HOW WROTE IN ON 12/03.
I'M SORRY TO HERE WHAT'S HAPPENING TO YOUR RLATIONSHIP i WAS IN THE SAME ONE BUT FOR 14 YEARS HE STARTED AT THE AGE OF 15. AND WE MET IN HGH SCHOOL BACK IN 1986.I RECENTLY HAD OPEN HEART SURGERY NOT BECAUSE OF THE DRUGS BECAUSE I DON'T BOTHER WITH IT BUT BECAUSE I WAS BORN WITH AN INLARGE BLOOD VESSAL IT GOT BIGGER OVER TME,HE WOULD LEAVE MY HOUSE FOR 3 DAYS AT A TIME AND BLOW HIS WHOLE CHECK. I ALSO WAS READY TO GIVE UP OR HOPING SOMETHING WOULD HAPPEN TO HIM BUT YA SEE MY SON'S FATHER WAS AND STILL IS A BS'R IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN. HE'S BEEN IN AND OUT OF PRISON ,JAIL AND EVEN REHAB. AND AFTER HEREING I'M GOING TO STOP AFTER WHILE IT'S MIND BOGGING AND USELESS.
SO WHILE I WAS HAVING OPEN HEART SURGERY HE DECIDED TO GET MARRIED AND HAS A BABY GIRL HE'S SOMETHING ELSE
AND ON TOP OF THAT NEVER TOLD ME I FOUND OUT FROM HIS WIFE WHILE THEY BOTH WERE IN THE FAMILY SHELTER SO YA SEE NO ADDIT CARES ABOUT OTHERS NOR THEMSELVES.