hello to all , im so fed up a few weeks ago i had an appointment for the coil to be fitted but i then found out i was pregnant so i freaked out and made a new appointment for a termination but when the day came to go i couldnt do it and decided i was going to keep the baby im now about 15 weeks gone i have not seen a midwife yet . i wish i was not in this position i already have 4 kids an my youngest is only 10 months old im scared incase i cant cope i know ive got my b/f who will help me the only prob is that he has only been clean for 6 months an if he decideds to go back to smack im totally fu***d , has any one been /is in this position then pls tell me how you cope/d thanks emma xxxxxxxx
Emz, you're o star... congratulations.... i know you have you're worries but you're a great mum... all will be well. All the best for you and your family, Kev
man-- i have one and im broke and tired all the time-- i couldnt imagine having 4--have you thought of adoption?? i know it sounds heartwrenching--and yes it is--but i dad it with my last child and have no regrets-you can pick a wonderfull loving family who alot of times will help you with your current needs -rides to the doctor rent, and depending on how close you get or the type of people they are sometimes more....not that im saying do it for $, I was using so i did't see the family untill the day of because...well thats another story, but anyway--you are in charge these days adoptions are not terrible ordeals, many times-you choose the way things are and how much-or little you are involved, and you can back out at any time-look into it--it might help--couldn't hurt. there are many loving caring good people who cannot have children and would be great parents, and will love and respect and appreciate you for the best gift in the owrl--sorry to sound like a commercial but this is how i feel--literaly no regret about that adoption-i chose not to have contact, as i was still using, and figured i would be that way till i died, but i was wanted in their lives, and still i can contact them if i wish--there are no standards as to how things go--your contract is whatever you and the couple want. good luck
My baby will be one next month. I could not do it again. If i found out i was pregnant it would mess up my whole world. I'm sorry your in this situation. I hope your doing okay. Sorry i'm at a loss for words. Let us know how your doing. I have 3 kids i lost one pregnancy so i would have 4. I could not be more happy i can't have more. I can't give advice but, you and the kids are in my thoughts. I know being a mom is super HARD.
well guys it looks like i will be a single mum off 5 afterall
emma xx
emma xx
Emz, how c**?? Hunny I have left my email addy before and not heard from you...please email me at lyndsayg425@hotmail.co.uk and that goes for anyone else on here too.
Nothing wrong with being a single Mum though hun...thats what I am now. I am going to be Mammy and Daddy. At least I dont have anyone to argue with and I get to make all decisions.
Hope your ok hun. Keep your chin up xx
Nothing wrong with being a single Mum though hun...thats what I am now. I am going to be Mammy and Daddy. At least I dont have anyone to argue with and I get to make all decisions.
Hope your ok hun. Keep your chin up xx
my partner has just told me hes a addicted...and he always wanted another baby... thank god i never had 1.. feel for the kids we have now.. the choice is yours but i know what i do.. and by what ive read its not just bad for the family while thya r on it but also when they r coming off the mental issues.. i think this will be our last xmas together.. ill stay with him until he a bit better.. then im putting me and the kids first... good luck... p.s you only live once.. we are not marters xxx
