YGM, thumper.
Glad to see you taking it all so well, Thumper. Somebody told me this when I was very young and I much later found it to be true. When a mate is cheating, on some level we know even if they don't get caught. We can just feel when something isn't right and often if we do find out, we aren't terribly surprised.
You feel nothing of the sort because you're confident that your husband is a good guy. I think you just felt insulted because the girl was so rude. (and rightfully so) You and your husband are blessed to have each other.
If I were you, I'd just be polite since your husband has already stood up for you and said what needed to be said. I don't think I'd want this woman for a friend, though. She's already shown you what she's made of.
xxxxxooooo
You feel nothing of the sort because you're confident that your husband is a good guy. I think you just felt insulted because the girl was so rude. (and rightfully so) You and your husband are blessed to have each other.
If I were you, I'd just be polite since your husband has already stood up for you and said what needed to be said. I don't think I'd want this woman for a friend, though. She's already shown you what she's made of.
xxxxxooooo
listen everyone..............
i really want to say thank you..........for your responses.....
carol............thank you for sharing our story..............
i was really taking my anger out on my husband........
i just felt so disrespected at work when this happened....
and frankly it really shocked me, and My husband........
he was scared to death of what i was feeling......
cause my face said it all...........and i immedialy saw my own relfetion of being hurt in his eyes............and we cant really act a fool at work....ya know
so we had to walk away
he is a very simple man and down to earth......
and i have to admit very niave ....because he is so simple.....
he takes care of me when i am sick and takes me to the doctor and everything...
for some reason he thinks i am all that......i hear how he talks about me...
and it is very kind and he alsways puts me first........
i really appreciate being able to bounce this off of all of you......
i feel as though i am among friends and thats a wonderful feeling to me.......
thank you again for being here for me..................
see thats why i love ya all so much.......it may sound silly........
but i am being honest.....
there is not a day that goes by that i am greatful to come here and
share life with you all.............
thank you and God Bless each and every one of you that posted me.....
you all are very wonderful people and it is such a pleasure to be in your company here....................
GOOSIE night...................
thumper
i really want to say thank you..........for your responses.....
carol............thank you for sharing our story..............
i was really taking my anger out on my husband........
i just felt so disrespected at work when this happened....
and frankly it really shocked me, and My husband........
he was scared to death of what i was feeling......
cause my face said it all...........and i immedialy saw my own relfetion of being hurt in his eyes............and we cant really act a fool at work....ya know
so we had to walk away
he is a very simple man and down to earth......
and i have to admit very niave ....because he is so simple.....
he takes care of me when i am sick and takes me to the doctor and everything...
for some reason he thinks i am all that......i hear how he talks about me...
and it is very kind and he alsways puts me first........
i really appreciate being able to bounce this off of all of you......
i feel as though i am among friends and thats a wonderful feeling to me.......
thank you again for being here for me..................
see thats why i love ya all so much.......it may sound silly........
but i am being honest.....
there is not a day that goes by that i am greatful to come here and
share life with you all.............
thank you and God Bless each and every one of you that posted me.....
you all are very wonderful people and it is such a pleasure to be in your company here....................
GOOSIE night...................
thumper
Hi Thumper,
I am glad that you are feeling better and that your husband stood up for you. You have a wonderful husband and you are truly blessed with that. Not all men are like that.
Well I am waiting for my cousin to come and get her 4 kids that I am babysitting. I have had them for over three hours and I am trying not to pull all my hair out. Me + 7 kids does not go well. They are driving me CRAZY. Man they just go on and on. I am so tired and I just want to sleep. I have 3 four year olds and 2 two year olds and then a 5 and a 7 year old. Man it is just crazy here. ALthough they did help me decorate my tree.
Love ya
I am glad that you are feeling better and that your husband stood up for you. You have a wonderful husband and you are truly blessed with that. Not all men are like that.
Well I am waiting for my cousin to come and get her 4 kids that I am babysitting. I have had them for over three hours and I am trying not to pull all my hair out. Me + 7 kids does not go well. They are driving me CRAZY. Man they just go on and on. I am so tired and I just want to sleep. I have 3 four year olds and 2 two year olds and then a 5 and a 7 year old. Man it is just crazy here. ALthough they did help me decorate my tree.
Love ya
Danny,
LMAO at that one!
Thumper, your class is shining through. Hold your head high.
LMAO at that one!
Thumper, your class is shining through. Hold your head high.
Thumper,
Thank you for sharing that with us, I needed to read a good story today. Not that the bimbos actions were good, but I can feel the love you and your husband share. And its beautiful.
Sarah is right...he glows form the love of a good woman. Its because of you dear Thumper.
Merry Christmas
Thank you for sharing that with us, I needed to read a good story today. Not that the bimbos actions were good, but I can feel the love you and your husband share. And its beautiful.
Sarah is right...he glows form the love of a good woman. Its because of you dear Thumper.
Merry Christmas
thank you...............(((((((((((((Redd))))))))))))))))
gentle hug for you and Ava and family......this holiday season........
my husband pointed sarahs post out right after he read the entire thread...
i refused to kiss my huband at work the other day....
and it hurt he so deeply, i watched him walk away and his head was all the way down........saying "i am doing the best i can"..i did not let him see me...but when i saw how his head was i got on the elevator and wiped the tears that came out from seeing my husband like that....after he did all that....
stuck up for me and everything....
i felt terrible and and still angry at the same time...
the last thing i want is to hurt him and the last thing he wants is to hurt me...
but here we were both hurt...see i am mean, whem i hurting, i dont cry.
i get distant and mean.
and so i decided to post this and just talk to you all as if you were right here with me................and move into some sort of soulution....
after all the post a miricle happened.within my own heart...inside my heart all those bitter feelings about being "disespected"..........was resolved and i LET IT GO..
i dont ask my husband to read the board much, unless its something i really want to share........but i wanted him to see that, althogh i was mean to him about it........it was beacuse it hurt me.....it embarressed me...
he was excited to read the post and felt so pleased to see what kind loving poeple i post with.........
he was drawn to sarah's post....i thought maybe beause they are both from lousina...........
hes's REAL southern............
see thats why it so nice to be here with each other..........atlas and kat have been with me form day 1.....and now all the beautiful friends that i have made.
its fun............i like it, i love that i have made friends.......here.
please please lets love one another and lift one another up.....
i know there alot of "things" going on here at this board......
fighting and such........
i was wondering if everyone would be willing to start over this new year here....
and put all the negative things aside...............
for the sake of love love and forgivness...........
sarah..............your a great teacher...........you have taught me a few things....
i could honestly go through each poster names and say something beautiful that see within them.............honestly......
i can even do this at work..........even with the crazy hefers i encounter....
i can still see a beautiful quality in them..........
only if they could set aside the jelousy and see it in their selves..........
i am posting alot today cause i am home alone.....
feels nice to sit and feel no time pressure...............
gentle hug for you and Ava and family......this holiday season........
my husband pointed sarahs post out right after he read the entire thread...
i refused to kiss my huband at work the other day....
and it hurt he so deeply, i watched him walk away and his head was all the way down........saying "i am doing the best i can"..i did not let him see me...but when i saw how his head was i got on the elevator and wiped the tears that came out from seeing my husband like that....after he did all that....
stuck up for me and everything....
i felt terrible and and still angry at the same time...
the last thing i want is to hurt him and the last thing he wants is to hurt me...
but here we were both hurt...see i am mean, whem i hurting, i dont cry.
i get distant and mean.
and so i decided to post this and just talk to you all as if you were right here with me................and move into some sort of soulution....
after all the post a miricle happened.within my own heart...inside my heart all those bitter feelings about being "disespected"..........was resolved and i LET IT GO..
i dont ask my husband to read the board much, unless its something i really want to share........but i wanted him to see that, althogh i was mean to him about it........it was beacuse it hurt me.....it embarressed me...
he was excited to read the post and felt so pleased to see what kind loving poeple i post with.........
he was drawn to sarah's post....i thought maybe beause they are both from lousina...........
hes's REAL southern............
see thats why it so nice to be here with each other..........atlas and kat have been with me form day 1.....and now all the beautiful friends that i have made.
its fun............i like it, i love that i have made friends.......here.
please please lets love one another and lift one another up.....
i know there alot of "things" going on here at this board......
fighting and such........
i was wondering if everyone would be willing to start over this new year here....
and put all the negative things aside...............
for the sake of love love and forgivness...........
sarah..............your a great teacher...........you have taught me a few things....
i could honestly go through each poster names and say something beautiful that see within them.............honestly......
i can even do this at work..........even with the crazy hefers i encounter....
i can still see a beautiful quality in them..........
only if they could set aside the jelousy and see it in their selves..........
i am posting alot today cause i am home alone.....
feels nice to sit and feel no time pressure...............
Thumper:
I have learned a lot from you too. That is a 2 way street!
I am willing to start over...and will facilitate whatever it takes to help us all come together here.
I know how you feel about hurting your husband the other day. I do that sometimes too. When I get scared, I get distant and irritated. It is a part of old behavior that I just need to let go. I think "fear" is what made taking pain pills so attractive to me. I didn't feel afraid too much back then, because I didn't "feel" anything!
Anyway, I have to confront my fears, and I am working on that. I just am so close to the feeling that life is very brief...even if we live a long life, it is still not enough time to love as much as we all deserve to love, and be loved. I just don't want to waste any more time.
I am so glad you understood what I was trying to say in that thread about making amends, and just stopping and thinking about what we are saying. I know we all have sensitive feelings...but like you said, walking away from your husband the other day...there you were, both hurting...no one wins in that scenario, do they?
And right now, Lisa needs our prayers. She is facing a tough surgery on Thursday...and I want to support her, and make her feel strong and loved before she goes through that. I know, if it got right down to it, no one wishes any harm to her. I just wish we could get, "right down to it" more often!!!!!
Anyway, thank you for your kind words. I really do appreciate them. I am glad you and your husband are closer because of that silly woman, and not further apart. Angels come in strange packages sometimes. We just never know.
Love ya,
Sarah
I have learned a lot from you too. That is a 2 way street!
I am willing to start over...and will facilitate whatever it takes to help us all come together here.
I know how you feel about hurting your husband the other day. I do that sometimes too. When I get scared, I get distant and irritated. It is a part of old behavior that I just need to let go. I think "fear" is what made taking pain pills so attractive to me. I didn't feel afraid too much back then, because I didn't "feel" anything!
Anyway, I have to confront my fears, and I am working on that. I just am so close to the feeling that life is very brief...even if we live a long life, it is still not enough time to love as much as we all deserve to love, and be loved. I just don't want to waste any more time.
I am so glad you understood what I was trying to say in that thread about making amends, and just stopping and thinking about what we are saying. I know we all have sensitive feelings...but like you said, walking away from your husband the other day...there you were, both hurting...no one wins in that scenario, do they?
And right now, Lisa needs our prayers. She is facing a tough surgery on Thursday...and I want to support her, and make her feel strong and loved before she goes through that. I know, if it got right down to it, no one wishes any harm to her. I just wish we could get, "right down to it" more often!!!!!
Anyway, thank you for your kind words. I really do appreciate them. I am glad you and your husband are closer because of that silly woman, and not further apart. Angels come in strange packages sometimes. We just never know.
Love ya,
Sarah
