My Best friend died of Bone cancer at the age of 38. Today he should be 44 and living.
Enjoy each day as life is quite fragile. His story I told it once is so sad. My dear friend lost her brother and Father to 2 types of awful painful cancer.
They both suffered awfully.
And her mom has cancer as well. Just finished chemo. The pain is bad. Surgery is not an option. Doctors do not think it will help and could kill her.
So now my friend watches her mom wither away. If not for her niece who she promised to take care of--(Long story)? she would have nothing to live for.
She is so angry its eaten her totally up.
Anger is an awful thing to live with.
I am so sad for her.
My friend is a mess. And I cant do anything but listen.
Life really sucks sometimes
Jeff
Jeff, this has to be the bummer thread of the year...I hear ya though,,,
I have lost most of my family..I hope you have a better day...
Doug
I have lost most of my family..I hope you have a better day...
Doug
Not like this person. Its so sick. For many years I could never believe that there was a god.
I do not have the time to tell the whole story but its sickening. And she just wrote me back to tell me she is crying and has to go deal with her mom who is suffering.
I am amazed she is still here. So angry. And she was and is so smart. Was a lawyer --retired money no issue
she writes poetry some have won awards.
She is an amazing woman. Life sure has done a number on her.
Later
I do not have the time to tell the whole story but its sickening. And she just wrote me back to tell me she is crying and has to go deal with her mom who is suffering.
I am amazed she is still here. So angry. And she was and is so smart. Was a lawyer --retired money no issue
she writes poetry some have won awards.
She is an amazing woman. Life sure has done a number on her.
Later
Jeff Im so sorry for all you wrote about.So much pain & heartbreak.Its times like these that ANYONE would qusetion God.I wish I had some kind of words to comfort you while you are comforting her.
Im on my way out to an appointment but please know if you need to talk,vent,yell cuss,my email is always here for you.
I wish I had more time,Im sorry.
I hope...Shoot what can ANYONE hope for at times like these.
Try to take care & stay strong for your friend...I suppose thats all you can do
lOVE MOLLY
Im on my way out to an appointment but please know if you need to talk,vent,yell cuss,my email is always here for you.
I wish I had more time,Im sorry.
I hope...Shoot what can ANYONE hope for at times like these.
Try to take care & stay strong for your friend...I suppose thats all you can do
lOVE MOLLY
Jeff, I'm so sad to hear about this. Christmas has to be the worst time to lose someone. My prayers are with y'all at this time.
*jeffery* big hug to you right now...................
so sorry jeffery............
Bless you heart..............
how are your daughters?
they are so pretty jeffery.......................
thumper
so sorry jeffery............
Bless you heart..............
how are your daughters?
they are so pretty jeffery.......................
thumper
Well for my whole life I never felt Jack. But this is crazy. My friend is so filled with anger. I cant help her. Cant blame her as her whole family has slowly been sucked away painfully.
I know longer live near her ands she will not move down to Florida. Hates the heat and would never leave her niece. This is all that keeps her going
Her PROMISE to her brother to watch over his daughter as he was dying.
She lives for this child. Its so sad. I get nuts angry blame God as I do believe there is a higher power than I and well in this situation ?/ its the devil. Cause its destroyed a family and slowly sheet I cant even talk about it.
Puck it
Jeff
I know longer live near her ands she will not move down to Florida. Hates the heat and would never leave her niece. This is all that keeps her going
Her PROMISE to her brother to watch over his daughter as he was dying.
She lives for this child. Its so sad. I get nuts angry blame God as I do believe there is a higher power than I and well in this situation ?/ its the devil. Cause its destroyed a family and slowly sheet I cant even talk about it.
Puck it
Jeff
Im sorry Jeff. My grandmother died from bone cancer a long time ago and I remember my mother was devasted for so long from watching her suffer. My mom also lost her first husband to melanoma when she had a 7 year old boy and was only in her 20's. Its amazing how people can still go on after such painful events. Im sorry youre feeling down.
This sucks Jeff..sorry dude
Hi Fire Not feeling down. Just cant imagine what my dear friend is going through. All alone.
Her Mom fighting cancer and bad pain in the back. All she has been doing is nursing and burying people .
Its a shame. It makes me really wonder why these things happen.
But Its not me in any pain. I miss my best friend. Fire when your entire life you lose things well you can either feel sorry and numb the pain or do what I have done accepted it.
I am very sad for my friend who is in agony. She just wrote me to thank me and said she is fine. I wrote back Bull spit.
Its an awful story. But its life.
Jeff
Her Mom fighting cancer and bad pain in the back. All she has been doing is nursing and burying people .
Its a shame. It makes me really wonder why these things happen.
But Its not me in any pain. I miss my best friend. Fire when your entire life you lose things well you can either feel sorry and numb the pain or do what I have done accepted it.
I am very sad for my friend who is in agony. She just wrote me to thank me and said she is fine. I wrote back Bull spit.
Its an awful story. But its life.
Jeff
