How are you doing today? Just want you to know I am thinking of you and hope you are well & staying strong. Say hello when you can... hugs...
CB,
Still hanging in. Today is day 6. But what a crazy day here. Being pulled in a a zillion different directions. Last night was very hard as my hubby was being a complete a***. Not that it is unusual for him to do so. But this time he really crossed the line. Instead of arguing with him, I got on the computer and typed out my feelings and pointed out my side of the situation and brought up some very solid and strong points to my argument and laid it out for him to see.
I know if I had had some in the house I would have drank it but I didn't and I didnt go get any either. Tough night and today is not much better but hangin in.
I'm like you... I do fine until I get bombarded with alot of stress. I have been telling myself that he, no-one or nothing is worth making me fall.
SOO Glad to see you're doing so much better. You've been in my thoughts and prayers. CONGRATS ON DAY 4!!!!. That is just TERRIFIC! I'm so proud of and for you. I'm sure no one is prouder of you than you. I know that feeling well.
All my best,
Tremor
Still hanging in. Today is day 6. But what a crazy day here. Being pulled in a a zillion different directions. Last night was very hard as my hubby was being a complete a***. Not that it is unusual for him to do so. But this time he really crossed the line. Instead of arguing with him, I got on the computer and typed out my feelings and pointed out my side of the situation and brought up some very solid and strong points to my argument and laid it out for him to see.
I know if I had had some in the house I would have drank it but I didn't and I didnt go get any either. Tough night and today is not much better but hangin in.
I'm like you... I do fine until I get bombarded with alot of stress. I have been telling myself that he, no-one or nothing is worth making me fall.
SOO Glad to see you're doing so much better. You've been in my thoughts and prayers. CONGRATS ON DAY 4!!!!. That is just TERRIFIC! I'm so proud of and for you. I'm sure no one is prouder of you than you. I know that feeling well.
All my best,
Tremor
Hi Tremor, sorry your H is being difficult, but that's a good idea to write/type it down, better than arguing for sure. Hope things will workout. Congrats on day 6, you're doing so well! I'm trying not to think too much about how many days I have, when I do that I sometimes get myself into trouble. But I'm happy to have made it this far! I keep repeating my new mantra to myself: one day at a time. Thanks as always for your wishes and encouragemnt. And I'm glad to hear you're still hanging in there & not giving in to the stress. I will try to find some time to check in this weekend when I'm not cleaning out my stupid old apartment (ever notice that once you move you want nothing more to do with the place you moved out of? LOL). Thinking of you, and stay in touch!!
