Hi Welsh Lady
Just a quick post to see how things are going with your daughter and where you're at just now my friend?
You and your little girl are in my thoughts and prayers. Just let me know you're ok honey, been worried as you haven't posted for a while.
Good victory in the Rugby for Wales today hey!!!!!!!!!!!
Luv Christina xxx
Hi christina,
Great game many celabrations here on Saturday. Things went great for a week had her money last thursday 6th March , did'nt see her all day when she came home I could see she had used. Ofcourse she said she had'nt , I did;nt get into a full blown row did'nt see the point.She has gone for a urine test today , so will it show.
Now to the next worry, she has picked up with some fella from probation who is 35 stopped out all Saturday night and is stopping with him tonight. Kirsty has a contrecepitive inplant which wants changing and I can't get her to go to the doctors,she said she would go this week.We can't cope with the thought of Kirsy getting pregnant,my husband says she can't look after her self leave alone a baby.This fella is on an order aswell so she goes down to probation with him.
Will it ever end I know in her mind she wants a baby not the fella,but we will be left with the bring up.Hope it fades out . How are things with you hope you'r feeling ok.Your all so great on her could'nt have got through the last few months without all of you.
Hugs to you all Christina I would love to meet up with you
one day
Great game many celabrations here on Saturday. Things went great for a week had her money last thursday 6th March , did'nt see her all day when she came home I could see she had used. Ofcourse she said she had'nt , I did;nt get into a full blown row did'nt see the point.She has gone for a urine test today , so will it show.
Now to the next worry, she has picked up with some fella from probation who is 35 stopped out all Saturday night and is stopping with him tonight. Kirsty has a contrecepitive inplant which wants changing and I can't get her to go to the doctors,she said she would go this week.We can't cope with the thought of Kirsy getting pregnant,my husband says she can't look after her self leave alone a baby.This fella is on an order aswell so she goes down to probation with him.
Will it ever end I know in her mind she wants a baby not the fella,but we will be left with the bring up.Hope it fades out . How are things with you hope you'r feeling ok.Your all so great on her could'nt have got through the last few months without all of you.
Hugs to you all Christina I would love to meet up with you
one day
Welsh lady try not to worry in the what ifs
It is hard enough to look at what is really there in front of us when it comes to our children let alone to start thinking in terms of what if this happens, that
One thing that you wrote really hits a nerve with me. I understand looking at her in this today and seeing that she can barely take care of herself, make the right choicesbut to set the future up without even giving her a chance. If she were to become pregnant, and you stepped in right away, all along the way making her decisions, telling her what to do you steal away the thinking processrob her of the chance to learn, to get it
Take some deep breaths, allow her to live it her way, and to feel the consequences of all her actions. That is how we learn, as there are so called good and bad consequences to all our choices, each side of these are good things personally.
We only ever know for certain what our pasts are, even minute to minute we only know the minute that just past, not the one that hasnt happened just quite yet
Believe...
Love,
Tina
It is hard enough to look at what is really there in front of us when it comes to our children let alone to start thinking in terms of what if this happens, that
One thing that you wrote really hits a nerve with me. I understand looking at her in this today and seeing that she can barely take care of herself, make the right choicesbut to set the future up without even giving her a chance. If she were to become pregnant, and you stepped in right away, all along the way making her decisions, telling her what to do you steal away the thinking processrob her of the chance to learn, to get it
Take some deep breaths, allow her to live it her way, and to feel the consequences of all her actions. That is how we learn, as there are so called good and bad consequences to all our choices, each side of these are good things personally.
We only ever know for certain what our pasts are, even minute to minute we only know the minute that just past, not the one that hasnt happened just quite yet
Believe...
Love,
Tina
