Hi Kitty: I'm so sorry you are going through yet more turmoil with your b/f. I don't know about money stores but I don'e believe he gave $ to his mom.
Addicts are so use to telling lies that I don't think they can tell the truth even if they try.
Hang in there, you are strong!
here's the site: http://www.crackreality.com/
Thanks Bob!!!!
I hope you are doing well....you have helped me a lot these past days
I hope you are doing well....you have helped me a lot these past days
marie, you are welcome.
i hope i didn't come across as TOO direct with you, particularly in your very early stages of asking questions.
it's just that the denial of those of us who have dealt with addicts and alcoholics is so strong, sometimes we need a big dose of reality to break through and bring us to our senses.
because we have become de-sensitized. i know i have been. still am a times.
many times we think that thing will get better on their own -- but most times they don't. so we have to do what we have to do for ourselves under the circumstances.
i'm glad you have been helped.
i hope i didn't come across as TOO direct with you, particularly in your very early stages of asking questions.
it's just that the denial of those of us who have dealt with addicts and alcoholics is so strong, sometimes we need a big dose of reality to break through and bring us to our senses.
because we have become de-sensitized. i know i have been. still am a times.
many times we think that thing will get better on their own -- but most times they don't. so we have to do what we have to do for ourselves under the circumstances.
i'm glad you have been helped.
I also have similar experiences, told my husband to leave on new years eve after ironing his shirt to take out a much younger woman he thought i was not so street smart as to figure out what was going on. now 2 months into seperation I have had sex with him 4x, sounds stupid, but I love and miss him, now he is cheating on his mistres with his wife. sick sick sick. Tells me he wants to take it slow, to make sure getting back with me is not a mistake, didn't know that the person I married 15 years ago was a mistake. Thanks for listening
