hey all hope everyone is ok out there so i went to the mall yesterday got some things for the wife really proud of what i picked out so i bring all the stuff home and i tell the wife to try things on and everything fits except one shirt so i did real good no big deal i can bring that one shirt back and get a bigger size so i go to work today and when i come home the wife tells me that all the stuff i brought for her she loved but i can bring it all back cause all she wants for xmas is for me go to another na metting really didn't like the first one most of the people there were forced to be didn't think i would get to much from them so we go round and round about this she knows i feel uncomfortable talking and being in crowds i don't know so i have decided to talk to my counselor about trying group meetings there and told her she could keep the presents because i love her an she deserves all of them and more still not sure if the group thing will work but i am gonna give it a another try lots of prayers are gonna be need to get me through this
I am praying for you over here....
I know the crowd thing....it can be hideous. But just remember, everyone at that table is like us...just put our stories on their faces...LOL...
Kerry
I know the crowd thing....it can be hideous. But just remember, everyone at that table is like us...just put our stories on their faces...LOL...
Kerry
Bad........That was so sweet! I know what an effort it must have taken to go to the mall and make decisions! That is hard during w/d. There was a lot of love and thought in what you did.
I know what you mean about the meetings, feel the same way. And I have no problem with crowds or talking to them. In spite of all the hype, I keep thinking I am going to do this without them. Could be wrong, though! I'm on day 22 and doing pretty good so far. I started private therapy today, and am going to start going to a "Women in Trauma" group meeting, so maybe that'll suffice.
Good luck whichever way you choose to go! Take care!
ALL CAN SAI I LOVE YOU BOTH VERY MUCH you both bring so much more than you will ever no to the board your atrue loveing couple and im really look up to both of you .stay clean my dear love to both of you..and the little ones
