Good Morning all, i was not going to post this morning, but i just thought that maybe some of you who care about me would like to hear from me, hehe...
I dont know if any of you were aweare but i went to the ER over the weekend with horrible cramping, temp, throwing up alot, spotting, and all that stuff, so my friend took me to the ER where i had blood drawn, sonagram, exzam, and all to find oot that I was ok, thats good and all but it does not explain the cramping and stuff?? hummm....
i have been taking it easy and have just been trying to keep my sprits up and all, but its hard with all this crap going on around me, Christmas is almost here & i am not at all feeling it, i am so scared and torn about this unborn baby..
i have to go now and feed the angels, so take care all, Mitzy.......
Hey there Mitzy, Just wanted to answer your post and say hi to ya. What in gods name has happened with you??? I here from all the other posts that your having a baby.!! Well are congrats. welcomed or are you not having it??? I have read a few things about all this and after talking to you on the phone, i figured we can be honest enough with each other. So tell me, what is happening and going on?? If you want to talk about it .!!!
Your Friend,
Christina
Your Friend,
Christina
Hey you, I DONT KNOW???? ahhhhhh. i am so confussed?? part of me wants the baby and part of me knows that i can not afford another baby, and what if it was twins again, ???, i would just die!!! what do u think??what would you do, i mean??? as i am so confussed!
Hey Mitzi,
What's up? You sound like you are having a hard time with your decison and I feel for you on it. However, I also feel like you better hurry up and make your descion to. I am pro-choice like I have stated in the past but if you chose not to keep your baby you should do what you have to do soon. I know many of you may think take your time here but the more time you take the further you are along and the harder it will be on you in the long run if you decide to terminate the pregnancy.. So saying my 2 cents I will talk to you soon and take care of yourself,Rae
What's up? You sound like you are having a hard time with your decison and I feel for you on it. However, I also feel like you better hurry up and make your descion to. I am pro-choice like I have stated in the past but if you chose not to keep your baby you should do what you have to do soon. I know many of you may think take your time here but the more time you take the further you are along and the harder it will be on you in the long run if you decide to terminate the pregnancy.. So saying my 2 cents I will talk to you soon and take care of yourself,Rae
I gotta tell ya, i have no idea what you should do. I know that about 3 months ago i thought that i was pregnant and i had that long awaited talk with my fiancee and we decided that we would wait and see what happened. The home test kept comming back with different answers and i was getting scared to.
I ended up getting a blood test done and it came back as a big fat NO. Thank god cause it was one battle that i didnt want to go and fight. But with you , i think that there are alot of things that could make or break the decision.
1. You have to remember that although you may think your body could handle this baby, it may not be able to. You use the pills and that could cause for a real problom when the baby is born.
2. Your husban??? What does he say about this ??? Does he think that you to should be having another one??
3. And if you decided not to have it, what are you gonna do?? Do you realy think that you could make it through an abortion?? And with that in mind, do you realy think that you could make it through an adoption??
The adoption thing sounds like a good idea and all but i dont know if i could carry a baby to full term and then have someone eles have it. Even more now that i have 2 of my own that would see mommy get big and pregnant.
But, i would have to fact in that i use the pills to get through day to day life and what is that gonna do on the child in your stomic??? You and i both know that you cant stop right now.! And thats not always a horrible thing, its just the way we are for the time being.
I guess that you have some tough thinking to do ahead of you.
Why does everyone think that your lieing about being pregnant?? And is that all over with now (the fighting) with the other people on this forum??
Love always, Christina
I ended up getting a blood test done and it came back as a big fat NO. Thank god cause it was one battle that i didnt want to go and fight. But with you , i think that there are alot of things that could make or break the decision.
1. You have to remember that although you may think your body could handle this baby, it may not be able to. You use the pills and that could cause for a real problom when the baby is born.
2. Your husban??? What does he say about this ??? Does he think that you to should be having another one??
3. And if you decided not to have it, what are you gonna do?? Do you realy think that you could make it through an abortion?? And with that in mind, do you realy think that you could make it through an adoption??
The adoption thing sounds like a good idea and all but i dont know if i could carry a baby to full term and then have someone eles have it. Even more now that i have 2 of my own that would see mommy get big and pregnant.
But, i would have to fact in that i use the pills to get through day to day life and what is that gonna do on the child in your stomic??? You and i both know that you cant stop right now.! And thats not always a horrible thing, its just the way we are for the time being.
I guess that you have some tough thinking to do ahead of you.
Why does everyone think that your lieing about being pregnant?? And is that all over with now (the fighting) with the other people on this forum??
Love always, Christina
Mitzy,
Good morning. Hope you are feeling better. May I suggest you take this very private matter and email your friends or IM them. Besides you really don't need advice from strangers on a board. Talk to your immediate family, your priest or reverend, or preacher, and listen to your heart and pray, pray, pray.
I have to say that I still have doubts about you being pregnant and hope that you are not. Like I said before, I would just like honesty from you so that I could support you fully.
Please don't take my comments as being mean, they are not intended that way.
God bless,
Good morning. Hope you are feeling better. May I suggest you take this very private matter and email your friends or IM them. Besides you really don't need advice from strangers on a board. Talk to your immediate family, your priest or reverend, or preacher, and listen to your heart and pray, pray, pray.
I have to say that I still have doubts about you being pregnant and hope that you are not. Like I said before, I would just like honesty from you so that I could support you fully.
Please don't take my comments as being mean, they are not intended that way.
God bless,
Mitzy, are you still out there?????
Im here, but kinda upset, i am pregnant, i could think of better things to lie about trust me, anyways lets do this via e-mail, sharon is right , noone should know my personal stuff anyways, i will talk to soon, and i will answer all of you questions via e-mail, ok, i wont talk about this anymore on this forum, thanks and take care, mitzy....
I agree with Sharon. Mitzy....these things you are posting are totally personal to you. This is a recovery line, not a soap opera. I don't want to be mean, but every time you post there is something personally wrong with you. You need to talk personally with your close friends.
I am , sorry, no more about me... thanks all.....
I must also explain something, this type of huge problem could push an addict as myself over the edge is all, i am doing ok, but i just wanted you all to know why it is i posted about this problem i was having is all, thanks and no more about this topic, i am sorry if i offended someone.... thanks.....
mitzy, you havent offended anyone. I think that people feel like they cant beleave you after everything and its just there way to vent out at you too!
You do have probloms and we all know that. Im not an old school person here and i dont know much about the past of what you have said before. But if this was something that you have cryed wolf about in the past, then people just dont want to here about it again now. I think everyone would like to see you get better and be honest in your own heart. After all i myself was starting to think that this was just a "soap opera" thing myself after reading about all the fights on here.!! But when i have realy needed the help, there has been a ton to be there for me in the end on this board.
I have found that the honesty is the best med. and until people feel like you have reached that point, they may not want to hear about it anymore.!!
Tell them that your sorry, and mean it from the bottom of your heart. Tell the truth and tell everyone how long and how much your using. What kind of pills they are and then ask for help. We both know that you take the pills. You cant lie to me about that. All you can do is not respond to the posts that i write you. and i very much like writing to you , so please dont do that.!!
JUST BE HONEST.!! Ill start, I STILL TAKE THE PILLS. But in time i wont anymore and you can be helped to by all the people on here, if you just tell the real and whole story.
I love ya mitzy, and i wouldnt say these things otherwise. I dont want to fight with you . I just want to help you start the prosses.
LOVE, your FRIEND Christina
You do have probloms and we all know that. Im not an old school person here and i dont know much about the past of what you have said before. But if this was something that you have cryed wolf about in the past, then people just dont want to here about it again now. I think everyone would like to see you get better and be honest in your own heart. After all i myself was starting to think that this was just a "soap opera" thing myself after reading about all the fights on here.!! But when i have realy needed the help, there has been a ton to be there for me in the end on this board.
I have found that the honesty is the best med. and until people feel like you have reached that point, they may not want to hear about it anymore.!!
Tell them that your sorry, and mean it from the bottom of your heart. Tell the truth and tell everyone how long and how much your using. What kind of pills they are and then ask for help. We both know that you take the pills. You cant lie to me about that. All you can do is not respond to the posts that i write you. and i very much like writing to you , so please dont do that.!!
JUST BE HONEST.!! Ill start, I STILL TAKE THE PILLS. But in time i wont anymore and you can be helped to by all the people on here, if you just tell the real and whole story.
I love ya mitzy, and i wouldnt say these things otherwise. I dont want to fight with you . I just want to help you start the prosses.
LOVE, your FRIEND Christina
I guess, from the lack of response that you are problobly upset with me and dont want to write to me anymore.! thats a real bummer because you have helped me through some tough times in the past. I want to tell you that i wish you the best and that whatever happens with everything that i concider you a FRIEND. I hope that you write back to me soon and we can continue to help each other.
Your a very bright and outgoing person. your words have helped alot of people. Please dont be mad at me for saying what i said. But if you are, thats o.k. too!! your aloud to have your opinion.
With lots of LOVE ,
Christina
P.S. Im here whenever you are ready.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Your a very bright and outgoing person. your words have helped alot of people. Please dont be mad at me for saying what i said. But if you are, thats o.k. too!! your aloud to have your opinion.
With lots of LOVE ,
Christina
P.S. Im here whenever you are ready.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Christina
I hope you are OK, I saw how you reached out to Mitzy and appealed for honesty and thought you handled it very well. You have acted like a true friend and you should congratulate yourself for that. It is a difficult thing to do especially when you have doubts about what to believe and like others have said you have pointed out that you will not abandon herI know you may feel that maybe you should not have but trust me you were right.
Sharon I also believe your motive for the advice came from a heart of compassion and not to upset MitzyIt has taken me a long time to *get* you but I think I have a handle on it now lol
Mitzy I have kept away from posting to you generally because I too have difficulties believing some of the things you say. Can you really blame me?. I have tried to take a balanced view but when I standback and take a snapshot of your posts they look pretty far fetched at times. I certainly believe you have problems but in the main you never mentioned the real issues (maybe you dont know what they are yet) I just wanted to say you have my support and prayers.
Warmly
Neon
I hope you are OK, I saw how you reached out to Mitzy and appealed for honesty and thought you handled it very well. You have acted like a true friend and you should congratulate yourself for that. It is a difficult thing to do especially when you have doubts about what to believe and like others have said you have pointed out that you will not abandon herI know you may feel that maybe you should not have but trust me you were right.
Sharon I also believe your motive for the advice came from a heart of compassion and not to upset MitzyIt has taken me a long time to *get* you but I think I have a handle on it now lol
Mitzy I have kept away from posting to you generally because I too have difficulties believing some of the things you say. Can you really blame me?. I have tried to take a balanced view but when I standback and take a snapshot of your posts they look pretty far fetched at times. I certainly believe you have problems but in the main you never mentioned the real issues (maybe you dont know what they are yet) I just wanted to say you have my support and prayers.
Warmly
Neon
Christina, i am not mad at you, i was out for the day and just read all of your posts, and i just wanted to say Thanks... i have alot of issues that i need help on and i am getting support from friends and family at the moment so.... I should of never said anything about my pregnancy or my tail bone, i am going to keep things private from now on, i have family who knows that I post here and dont want them to know my business so i will keep my lips closed, sorry..
you know that i am sorry to all!!! from know on i will keep my stuff to my family and friends, as per sharon and other peoples advise, thanks all, and i am not mad at all, i just learned a very valuable lesson , thanks...
you know that i am sorry to all!!! from know on i will keep my stuff to my family and friends, as per sharon and other peoples advise, thanks all, and i am not mad at all, i just learned a very valuable lesson , thanks...
Thank-you for that Mitzy.
I was starting to this this was Days of Mitzy's Lives (I broke this bone or my 13th pregnancy or my kids are sick or etc, etc)
I hope we can now return to a recovery board.
I was starting to this this was Days of Mitzy's Lives (I broke this bone or my 13th pregnancy or my kids are sick or etc, etc)
I hope we can now return to a recovery board.
Kiwi -
Yes, I agree, this was even getting better than "All My Children" LMAO -
Sorry, Mitzy, I know this is a tough time for you and I wish you the best - I do agree, however, to keep the very personal stuff just that way - private.
You take care of yourself and "all your children":o)
Love,
Marie
Yes, I agree, this was even getting better than "All My Children" LMAO -
Sorry, Mitzy, I know this is a tough time for you and I wish you the best - I do agree, however, to keep the very personal stuff just that way - private.
You take care of yourself and "all your children":o)
Love,
Marie
Ha Ha Ha, real funny , is that the only original thought that u can up with?? life happens, eveyone clap kiwi had a thought, ( clap.clap.)!!
Neon,
You have a handle on me. I loved it when I read that. LOL, we have come a long way, my friend. Glad that we can see eye to eye on things now.
God bless you and your family on this holiday season.
Love,
You have a handle on me. I loved it when I read that. LOL, we have come a long way, my friend. Glad that we can see eye to eye on things now.
God bless you and your family on this holiday season.
Love,
Mitzy,
Please don't lash out at anyone. Everyone here has your best interest at heart and have given you a second chance, so make the best of it.
God bless,
Please don't lash out at anyone. Everyone here has your best interest at heart and have given you a second chance, so make the best of it.
God bless,
