Hey Kim and E'one:
This thread did turn fun. I LVE when that happens. When computer started up again - I got to read what I had missed.
We could give some really good advice to the people who are having their first child - like:
DON'T!!!!!!!!!!!
I'm just kidding, I would do it all over again, just prefer to wait on the g'children - they won't be with me 24/7 haha
Love to all,
Jean
Hi,
There was something in everyones post that rang a bell with me. Yes I always had something to drink with me, I loved the sound of the pills being counted, I loved it when they said yes the brand is in stock, when I got a new rx filled for 120-180 I felt like I just scored!!!
The things I hated were, its too soon to fill the rx, we dont have it in stock, we have to order them, didnt you just get these here?, why are you using so many drs? It wont go through your ins. I only have enough for 2 days but I need much more so I dont go into wds, the counting, the worrying, the money, dr shopping, the moods, the staying home and not wanting to do things, the fear of wd, going into wd the whole Fu*#*ing rat race!!! I am so thankful for it being over and I could go on, my list of things I hated would deffinitly out weigh the things I loved! I am sure that I am not the only one....
All my Best.........Shel
There was something in everyones post that rang a bell with me. Yes I always had something to drink with me, I loved the sound of the pills being counted, I loved it when they said yes the brand is in stock, when I got a new rx filled for 120-180 I felt like I just scored!!!
The things I hated were, its too soon to fill the rx, we dont have it in stock, we have to order them, didnt you just get these here?, why are you using so many drs? It wont go through your ins. I only have enough for 2 days but I need much more so I dont go into wds, the counting, the worrying, the money, dr shopping, the moods, the staying home and not wanting to do things, the fear of wd, going into wd the whole Fu*#*ing rat race!!! I am so thankful for it being over and I could go on, my list of things I hated would deffinitly out weigh the things I loved! I am sure that I am not the only one....
All my Best.........Shel
I Think this is a great topic makes me remember how insane I was, Evey story I Read, was me.............for myself, threads like this remind me of what I did, the insane thinking & let's me know I don't want to go back to that behavior for any reason...........This thread is like a growth chart, let's me know where I was, & how far I have come.
Love Dottie
Love Dottie
Dear Twin:
It has to be obvious to eveyone how far you have come. You sound wonderful, so calm. I need that calmness.
Just keep on keepin' on, b/c whatever you are doing physically and emotionally, it is working for you.
Reading this thread did remind me of stuff that I had forgotten but I really don't want to forget anything. I may write a list in my journal all of the crazy stuff I did and the lies I told during the madness.
Love you.
Your Twin
It has to be obvious to eveyone how far you have come. You sound wonderful, so calm. I need that calmness.
Just keep on keepin' on, b/c whatever you are doing physically and emotionally, it is working for you.
Reading this thread did remind me of stuff that I had forgotten but I really don't want to forget anything. I may write a list in my journal all of the crazy stuff I did and the lies I told during the madness.
Love you.
Your Twin
Gina and Crystal, can I recommend soccer boppers? On a few occasions, after a brawl the kids ended up laughing.
They also do wonders to relieve my personal stress. I don't hit my kids but I can safely watch them whop each other mercilessly.
Do not, I repeat, do not, get the children boxing gloves. I did that too. The result was my daughter knocking my son over the couch. In a blind fury, he climbed back over it and attacked her. We had to lift him off her, arms and legs swinging.
God, we sound like such a physical family when I read what I write, lol.
Love, Kat
They also do wonders to relieve my personal stress. I don't hit my kids but I can safely watch them whop each other mercilessly.
Do not, I repeat, do not, get the children boxing gloves. I did that too. The result was my daughter knocking my son over the couch. In a blind fury, he climbed back over it and attacked her. We had to lift him off her, arms and legs swinging.
God, we sound like such a physical family when I read what I write, lol.
Love, Kat
Kat,
I let my boys deathmatch in Doom. I'm told there's nothing like hitting your brother with a rocket launcher to work out frustration. (Actually, I've fragged Allan a couple of times myself and after a disagreement it's very satisfying, lol.)
Our family counselor was a little appalled by this and thought our family yoga classes were a better idea. But ocassionally, desperate times call for desperate measures...
Love,
Gina
I let my boys deathmatch in Doom. I'm told there's nothing like hitting your brother with a rocket launcher to work out frustration. (Actually, I've fragged Allan a couple of times myself and after a disagreement it's very satisfying, lol.)
Our family counselor was a little appalled by this and thought our family yoga classes were a better idea. But ocassionally, desperate times call for desperate measures...
Love,
Gina
I couldn't agree more, Gina. (of course, lol)
Love, Kat
Love, Kat
OMG - this is all to real to me right now...this is round 2 for me with the percocet...I finally had to tell my husband to take them away from me. The Dr has me on vico to take the edge off, and we're weaning off of that!!! BTW - my husband has those too :)
Gina and Kat,
Boxing gloves are never a good idea...LOL. My brother and sister used to duke it out with those, until one day, my brother hooked my sister on the chin, and in a rage, she shoved him right through the glass storm door. Its a miracle he escaped with only a few cuts.
My brother and I handled things differently. We would catch dozens of crawdad's (crawfish?) and throw them at each other. Occasionally, one would latch on to a fleshy body part with their pinchers. Oh, and I shot him once with a BB gun. We sound like something out of Deliverance.
DeNae
Boxing gloves are never a good idea...LOL. My brother and sister used to duke it out with those, until one day, my brother hooked my sister on the chin, and in a rage, she shoved him right through the glass storm door. Its a miracle he escaped with only a few cuts.
My brother and I handled things differently. We would catch dozens of crawdad's (crawfish?) and throw them at each other. Occasionally, one would latch on to a fleshy body part with their pinchers. Oh, and I shot him once with a BB gun. We sound like something out of Deliverance.
DeNae
Well you know where we live, DeNae......
Deliverance....lmao!
Love, Kat
Deliverance....lmao!
Love, Kat
crawdads? that's some good eating!!
Soccer boppers?sorry i dont know what that is,And my child plays soccer.lol.Just finished until spring thank god,tried of the running but,i loved watching and our poor little team.They didnt win a game one.the couches were pi**ed.I didnt like that, hell its a game and we are a small school and should of seen some of the kids that they played .they were like 2 times bigger then our kidsAlso,.I cant let mine fight it out .my oldest shes 12 and she a pretty big girl she weights 114pds and the other weighing in at 83pds .my yougest very active girl shes ok on her feet but,ashley the oldest always takes her down then its hammer time.She will sit on her and pop her agood one.i dont tell them to do this it something i walk in the room and find.
When i was young a child i had three brothers older and i had it rough.I had to learn to defend myself and when people talk about me and fighting they are like sh** i wouldnt mess with her.She would kll ya.I have been shot in the head with a bb gunn by my middle brother 3 times .One time in the head i still have a scare there a little dent.,i was up in a tree i use to climb...then In the hand i had to dig that bb out of my hand and it hurt worth then any other time..and in the foot,i have a blue mark on my foot looks like alitle ink got in it like i was getting a tatoo,lol.Maybe this will give some laugh before i get off to sleep itd 355am
.When i was five we lived in old big houses.we were poor and mom and my stepdad walk to do the laundry.Anyways,we heard birds in the chimney.My 2 brothers got on top of the house i think they thought they could see them ,i dont know what we were thinking.I was looking up and we were yelling at eachother something about the birds.they might of seen them ,anyways one brother down a red brick down and it hit me in the head.i hit the floor i thought it done knot me out.they jumoed out the house and helped me up got me to the bathroom run some water trying to get the bleeding to stop.Got a towel and walk me to town which was about half a mile.We got thier and my brother begged me to say i fell down the steps.So i did .We didnt have a car and my stepdad had to go get a friend to drive me to a docot ended up at chinees doctor.he stiched me up.I was screming the doctor said i give you a sucker ,then he said if you shut up i will give you two suckers.I shut up cause i wanted them suckers.lol.i had 6 stiches and couldnt see out my eye for a while .Mom didnt know what had really happen until years later like my teen years.I wish i could go back and be a kid again and have my mom here .You dont know how much a person means to you until its too late,Well,i gotta get off check back tomm. crystal
When i was young a child i had three brothers older and i had it rough.I had to learn to defend myself and when people talk about me and fighting they are like sh** i wouldnt mess with her.She would kll ya.I have been shot in the head with a bb gunn by my middle brother 3 times .One time in the head i still have a scare there a little dent.,i was up in a tree i use to climb...then In the hand i had to dig that bb out of my hand and it hurt worth then any other time..and in the foot,i have a blue mark on my foot looks like alitle ink got in it like i was getting a tatoo,lol.Maybe this will give some laugh before i get off to sleep itd 355am
.When i was five we lived in old big houses.we were poor and mom and my stepdad walk to do the laundry.Anyways,we heard birds in the chimney.My 2 brothers got on top of the house i think they thought they could see them ,i dont know what we were thinking.I was looking up and we were yelling at eachother something about the birds.they might of seen them ,anyways one brother down a red brick down and it hit me in the head.i hit the floor i thought it done knot me out.they jumoed out the house and helped me up got me to the bathroom run some water trying to get the bleeding to stop.Got a towel and walk me to town which was about half a mile.We got thier and my brother begged me to say i fell down the steps.So i did .We didnt have a car and my stepdad had to go get a friend to drive me to a docot ended up at chinees doctor.he stiched me up.I was screming the doctor said i give you a sucker ,then he said if you shut up i will give you two suckers.I shut up cause i wanted them suckers.lol.i had 6 stiches and couldnt see out my eye for a while .Mom didnt know what had really happen until years later like my teen years.I wish i could go back and be a kid again and have my mom here .You dont know how much a person means to you until its too late,Well,i gotta get off check back tomm. crystal
Soccer boppers! I love those things! I am on my third set..my son has ADHD and anger issues. Sometimes he needs to just ";let it out"..so we put them on and start bopping each other and usually wind up hysterical laughing as I fake "my death" on the floor..He thinks he is the big winner ( he is 7 yrs old) and his mood goes from angry to happy. Sometimes we just need to "let it out" , plain and simple!
Hey Laurie,
It's good to see you posting again. How're you feeling?
Love,
Gina
It's good to see you posting again. How're you feeling?
Love,
Gina
